Ok i want to know i started dating this guy i am 21 and he is 29 that dont get to me but my guy friend dont like it because he was married and has 2 kids (he is not married no more) am i doing to right thing by going out with him
2006-11-08 15:51:50 · 16 answers · asked by angel s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its your choice why not?
2006-11-08 15:54:43 · answer #1 · answered by Eddie S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes cause im in the same situation im 21 with a 29 year old thats been engaged twice and cheated on numerous times and has three children to the two women(1 to 1, 2 to the other) and same of my friends dont like it but i dont care what they think cause of his circumstance. your male friend may be worried about you getting hurt
2006-11-09 01:36:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends can you handle having to share his affections with his kids and also can you handle having to play mum at such a young age????
Its up to you to decide if that is what you want right now. Also the ex will always be part of his life, as they have 2 kids together if you can handle that then go for it
2006-11-08 23:57:00 · answer #3 · answered by Maria W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 21 do you want to be stuck with 2 kids that aren't yours?
2006-11-08 23:55:13 · answer #4 · answered by mary texas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on you.
Only you know what kind of guy he is and how much you understand of his past. And the possiblity of having to bear the responsibilty of handling 2 pretty grown kids at this age.
2006-11-08 23:58:06 · answer #5 · answered by Saffren 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 38 and dating a man who is divorced with 3 kids. NO, you are NOT wrong for dating a man who is divorced.
2006-11-08 23:55:24 · answer #6 · answered by Topsy T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theas nothing wrong with that. theas a lot of step moms out there. idk my bf's friend has a kid and was married and thea all done and hes a great dad but its so hard for him to find a girl cuz too many girls care that he has a kid and dont want nothing to do with him jus cuz of that. idk i jus feel bad if u like him & hes a good guy then ur doing nothing wrong.. ask urself if u would date him if he didnt have them attaachments?? then u have ur answer. it doesnt change who the guy is
2006-11-08 23:59:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl as long as he is not married and you really like him, then go for it. I mean, your guy friend is not the one dating him so that shouldnt concern him.
2006-11-08 23:54:55 · answer #8 · answered by bamababe6029 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in your situation when i was 21 and dating a guy that age... he's living with his ex-wife, and got two kids, and at first i thought it was okay but i found myself in a big mess... it wasnt such a good experience but you'll learn from it, besides, its you who will make a choice, not other people...
2006-11-08 23:58:35 · answer #9 · answered by "sehz" 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. This is definetly wrong. Love one, fresh boy. Even though today it mayseems to be jolly, but tomorow it may bring so many head aches.
2006-11-09 00:00:31 · answer #10 · answered by jaganmohan.Po 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him and he's a good man and treats you right, then who cares what your guy friend thinks?
2006-11-08 23:54:50 · answer #11 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋