I'm 23, single & I have everything a guy could ask for in this world. I'm young, I have money, I've traveled the world, I have a bomb apartment, gorgeous car & I've had so many gorgeous girls.....yet I feel empty. Every girl I've had sex with.....I don't feel anything for them. I hate this emptiness....why the f**k am I feeling this way? shouldn't I be happy that I'm single & living the young , single guys' dream? what's goin' on w/ me?!!!!
2006-11-08 15:41:06 · 5 answers · asked by Koala 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you are discovering what we all need to. Things do not fulfill. Neither do empty sexual experiences...when the 'fun' is over, there's nothing remaining.
Discovering what your passion in life is, developing meaningful, loving relationships, be willing to give of yourself and most of all serious consider allowing Christ into your life, if you haven't already. Now, i don't mean join a church, or follow this doctrine or that religion, i mean accept his priceless gift and develop a relationship with Him, not with man's rules. If this concept is completely foreign to you, simply stay open to the thought it might be a true possibility and pray; simply asking him to reveal himself to you. He will. You don't have to believe anyone else, he really will handle it if you just ask. your life will never be the same....it won't be perfect, but the emptiness will truly be gone! i promise.
2006-11-08 16:05:33 · answer #1 · answered by kb1123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can have all the money, and sex in the world but finding someone who really cares about maybe what you need. Take the time out to find out about a person like what are their values, goals, and dreams you might not feel so empty. Sex is not everything but someone who really cares about you is.
2006-11-08 23:51:23 · answer #2 · answered by jsxy695 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is just a physical thing for you right now because you don't have an emotional connection to these girls. You remind me of how my bf says he was when he was your age (he's 29 now). When he was younger, he was doing well, you know, slept with some pretty girls (although he never brought them home... his saying was "Never bring the hoes home"). lol What you need is to get into a REAL relationship. Find a girl that you can commit to and go steady. There's a huge difference between having sex for just a piece of @$$ and with someone you love and care for.
2006-11-08 23:45:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't found love... yeah, your life sounds like a movie, like a chick flick actually, some girl is going to sweep you off your feet or something. Try not viewing the world in measurements like the ones you're looking at. Look for love and joy and peace and religion and everything you can that doesn't have physical meaning, but is able to fill the hole in your soul.
2006-11-08 23:48:44 · answer #4 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop thinking about women. Just stop right now. Look around at everything you've accomplished at the age of 23 and revel in it. You should be proud of yourself. You don't need a girl, do you?
2006-11-08 23:46:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋