i seem to attract bipolar,mean, cheaters with no heart. i can't take no more, i do everything for the woman too much i am a looking for a healthy lovin relationship with honesty and trust
2006-11-08 15:33:58 · 15 answers · asked by chuck9864 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Relax buddy........we've ALL been there. I went through this when I was younger, why did it happen to me? well, when you fall in Love with the first piece that you get or with any girl that gives you the time of day it doesn't allow you to actually get to know the person.
VALUE YOURSELF MORE and don't fall for the first thing that comes along, get out there and date as MANY females as possible in time you'll know how to pick the ground beef from the Fillet Mignon.
2006-11-08 15:39:59 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might be too nice. I have seen really nice guys be taken advantage of on more than one occasion. You have to learn when to be nice and when to be rude so to speak.
You may also be trying too hard. I don't know you so it's hard to offer advice in this situation. If you step back and look at your relationships and you tend to jump into things you should slow down. Go on dates with women without commitment. Try to get to know them before they feel like you are serious about them. It's difficult in some cases because sometimes you never know the other person. You can live with a person for 10 years without really knowing them unless they want you to.
Good Luck to you. I hope you find what you are looking for.
2006-11-08 23:38:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my god, don't make me cry here. I feel that same way!! I mean, when I love, I love hard and I can't find anyone to return it. I think I am a trophy g/f with everything but I attract guys that seem bi-polar as well. One guy I went out with for a year dumped me, then he calls me 5 Mo. later wanting to take me out and stuff that he just never did while we were dating. We ended up getting along alot better than b4, yet, he stopped calling me. Maybe its this day in age.. you think?
2006-11-08 23:40:04 · answer #3 · answered by Mel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take this the wrong way, but we usually attract people of a similar mental state to my own. I know that when I met and married my lying evil exwife... I was ****** up myself. Otherwise we never would have worked for as long as we did.
WHere have you been meeting women? What are you going to do different?
2006-11-08 23:37:33 · answer #4 · answered by czekoskwigel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look beyond the beauty. Under the beauty you have been finding a beast. Talk to the women about their past and talk some more they will show there true selves if you listen and stop and hear what they are saying. Set limits with others for yourself also.
2006-11-08 23:36:38 · answer #5 · answered by Robin M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your lookin for love in all the wrong places, my advice to you would be to build a friendship with a woman first, if things seem to be working smoothly then ask her on a date, if she turns out to be a b*tch then dump her with the trash.
2006-11-08 23:37:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It must be fate. Congratulations I'm a pretty good bum magnet myself. It really must be that neither of us believes that we deserve a wonderful mate who will give us love honesty and trust.
2006-11-08 23:36:30 · answer #7 · answered by darkdiva 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to answer this, I just thought i 'd point it out to my boyfriend cause I have a feeling he has been looking for a question like this all night long.
2006-11-09 00:04:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like we have something in common...given you attract these women and I attract these men. I haven't entirely given up hope and neither should you...
2006-11-08 23:40:25 · answer #9 · answered by j -cold 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't give up man, they are out ther, u just gotta find the right one... cant believe im saying this (lord i apologize) but go to church and get to kno some women ther
2006-11-08 23:35:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋