So I was kinda casual dating someone, but it ended because the guy told me he was still in love with his ex, they are not dating, they did not get back together. So anyways 3 weeks later after the whole thing ended we started having sex again, and now its like 1 time a week kinda thing, so is it bad to be doing this? Sometimes im in it for the sex other times for the guy....should I continue with this or what? Sometimes its wierd the other day we were gonna have sex but we didnt because his brother was in the other room sleeping they live alone, anyway he said he felt uncomfortable, so the next day he called me to say he wanted to talk about the things we do, and we were suppose to get together but didnt. So few days later I called and asked he said he just wanted to apologize, obiously he changed his mind and realized he still wants to have sex....are booty call guys suppose to be this nice....
2006-11-08 15:30:45 · 10 answers · asked by Aby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
kinda dating someone as in its nothing serious getting to know each other, went on dates...
2006-11-08 15:35:38 · update #1
i would ask him what he really wants because i can already tell your not just in it for the sex. if he doesn't want to be with you i'd stop the sex because your just gonna keep getting more attatched good luck :)
2006-11-08 15:35:14 · answer #1 · answered by mami2nate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is using you for a booty call until he gets over his ex. Cut it off because you are the one that will be hurt in the end.
2006-11-08 23:33:07 · answer #2 · answered by live4logan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why wouldn't he be nice??? ... he's getting just as much out of it as you are .... if you're comfortable with this kind of relationship then it's ok ... no-one is being hurt or cheated on .... you just have to decide whether you want to continue like this or find a real soulmate
Good Luck :)
2006-11-08 23:34:01 · answer #3 · answered by deadkelly_1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT YOU NEED TO DO, IS STOP AND THINK ABOUT WHAT
YOU WANT IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR JUST SEX WITHOUT
ANY EMOTIONS THEN GO FOR ITM BUT DONT EXPECT ANY
THING ELSE. IF YOU WANT A REALTIONSHIP THEN STOP
THE BOOTY CALL.. AND FOR THIS BE NICE. THAT WHY
THEY ARE CALLED THIS. IT FOR GET WHAT YOU WANT
NO MUSK NOT FUSE. IF THAT WHAT YOU LOOKING FOR
THEN DONT COMPLAIN.
2006-11-08 23:48:06 · answer #4 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm...well, not being a "booty-call guy", I wouldn't know. But, it sounds like sex for you is just recreation, so I don't think it matters what you do, do you?
2006-11-08 23:34:04 · answer #5 · answered by SafetyDancer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself this question, " If I had a daughter would I want her doing what I am doing, and would I think he is nice enough for her" .
2006-11-08 23:35:03 · answer #6 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
screw him... ladies need booty calls too. look at it as ur using him until u find your own man that wont play with your head
2006-11-08 23:34:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, get some self respect. You can have sex with yourself, don't give it away, stop it!!!! good luck.
2006-11-08 23:34:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you "kinda" date someone?
2006-11-08 23:33:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the..........???????????
2006-11-08 23:33:08 · answer #10 · answered by *Unknown* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋