Guys, What do you do if you're a guy magnet?..... Please read the rest of the question.?

Question

*I might have posted this question earlier, so excuse me for repeating myself, but I'm totaly desperate.* I'm apperently a guy magnet at my high school (Grade 12), and it's very desturbing becuase I tried all I can to get rid of all of them. Apperantly, one guy (I think he's very attractive) is in love with me (for real!) and it's very, very freaky because I don't like him no matter how hot he is! I like not one of those guys but I just want to be their friends. As I said before I tired everything from reasoning to even taking to taking to their friends about it, but nothing worked. Do you think I should seek some adult help, such as parents and teachers, or should I just leave it alone to set it straight itself? I would appretiate all your advises. Thank you very much.

Teenie: I *am* over myself, it's just that the guys aren't, and just so you know I'm not proud of it. I don't dress like any slut (i hate sluts) but yet I've got these boys, there's nothing I can do. If you were in my situation you'd understand. I'm no player.

yahumokay: I know how to spell, my only problem is when I type/ write too fast I don't keep track of my spelling. I'm not illiterate, far from it, just so you know.

Thanks to everyone who answered.

Answer 1

Next year, go to college since you are a senior and learn how to spell "advice" and "apparently" and "disturbing" and "totally."

Get your education, then worry about boys.

And don't be so sure he's in "love" with you. As long as he isn't stalking you or making threats (which I understand, because I have had to deal with that) don't worry about it. Are you so sure he even likes you. Don't let your head get too big because the air is pushing out some of your brain cells necessary for spelling.

Peace.

Answer 2

Tell them to keep it in your pants, don't shower for a few days, wear clothing that is less flattering, act "bitchy" when these guys try to pick you up, etc. The most extreme would be filing a restraining order or doing home schooling. But if those are not options (as I imagine they are not) then it would just be best to blow them off, act very very very very very rude all the time when they are in your face, and just show them who is boss. If they feel they no longer have control over the situation, they will soon stop trying to impress you and potentially pick you up. Good luck!

Answer 3

It's a fine line between a high school crush and obsession... But if the guy won't get it any other way, you might want to get some adult help.

Answer 4

I know a girl who has your problem a bit... she attracts creepy guys and she's only a freshman, a cute little redheaded one with a bubbly personality too. Why does she have her problem? Not just because she's cute and cheerful, but because she can't say no.

Answer 5

Tell them tyou are dating someone they dont know. Tell them to find another girl because they can never satisify you. Tell them to F-off? If you are getting harassed, I would speak to someone before people try to overstep any boundries. If they continue, then you shouldnt be friends with them anymore.

Answer 6

you telling the guy you don't like him, isn't going to change his feelings for ya. He is going to like you no matter what. As long he is not hurting you, you just have to deal with it

Answer 7

You should consider yourself lucky but if you don't want the guys, just avoid them as much as possible!

Answer 8

See YAHUMOKAY'S answer. It's totally correct and fits you well. Take it from a very experienced person.

Answer 9

Dress up like a nerd and they wont be so attracted.

Answer 10

if you have a good guy friend, ask him to pretend to be your bf so that those other guys will see your taken and leave you alone.