OK..... Im a 19 year old female.....Im straight, Not attracted to women what so ever.. But recently I feel like I want to have a really close female friend that i can cuddle with and just be close to with out it getting sexual But the thing is I want her to be FINE and sexy enough for me to like (if i was Bi sexual)....what is this? Think Im crazy??
2006-11-08 15:25:07 · 9 answers · asked by 123NO 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There's nothing wrong with you being attracted to women, whether you call yourself straight or bi. I have always known that I am attracted to men. I have been lucky that I haven't had to deal with the confusion some people feel. But I grew up with a friend who didn't know who she like, was confused. I hated seeing her struggle and feel unhappy. I also have two lady friends that have been in a relationship with each other for twenty years. So your sexuality only matters to you. It is important that you follow what makes you happy. I feel sorry for people who feel they have to hide their wants or needs. You have a good heart so just listen to it. It could also be that you were hurt by a man and you seek something that feels safe and good, and you may not have gotten that from a man. One more point I would like to tell you is that no one is going to fullfill you until you do. You must make yourself a complete person without building that on a relationship. Relationships come and go but you will be here for a long time and you need to be at peace with yourself. When you have that you will have the best relationship whether you are with a man or woman. I wish you well and lots of happiness.
2006-11-08 15:38:21 · answer #1 · answered by Serinity4u2find 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say that if you are being truthful in saying you want her to be "fine" and you want to "cuddle" with her, you definitely have some sexual issue going on. Otherwise, this makes no sense.You're not crazy just sexually confused. Explore those feelings and be honest with yourself. You will feel much better if you do.
2006-11-08 23:31:14 · answer #2 · answered by Cashmere621 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO i don't think your crazy lol if you have a man in your life that your can do that with.......then i think that your on the verge of finding that woman and if she feels like you ...then you'll find yourself between the sheets with a soft ,warm and sexy woman satisfying your every need ......and your stll NOT crazy.. you'll just be in LOVE B.
2006-11-08 23:41:36 · answer #3 · answered by Bob 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u are just curious...i was like that too when i was 21...wanted to see what it would be like with a girl...i did my thing, but it was a o ne time thing and that was it nothin more...i don't think you are gay or bisexual i think u are curious...don't let no one make u feel bad on what u feel, at least you have the courage to say how u are feelin...u just need to know what u are feelin and know what you want...hope this helped!
2006-11-08 23:47:18 · answer #4 · answered by indiekajol 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think thats fine. Im in the same boat... with my roommate. No, wea not bisexual but we cuddle and stuff... i think its jus the best friend comfort... i dnt think ur crazy, i think its cool.
2006-11-08 23:30:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are coming out of the closet. Bi=greedy
2006-11-08 23:27:11 · answer #6 · answered by Mel 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are not crazy, you are curious...and your 19, perfectly normal...don't sweat it.
2006-11-08 23:27:16 · answer #7 · answered by Vee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your Gay Just say that! and you will get a lot of answers back I am not gay!!! and I will never be gay cause I love Boys!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-08 23:29:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe
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2006-11-08 23:27:37 · answer #9 · answered by *Unknown* 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋