I asked out this girl about two weeks ago by writing a note and gave it to my friend which gave it to her. She said no and I still like her after these last two weeks and also im trying to move on but I just cant. My friends are making fun of me for getting rejected also their telling me that I should ask her face to face and one of her friends said that we would look cute together. The thing is that we havent talk for a while and I've known her for about 2 months. We only have 1 class together and after tommorow is a 4 day weekend and also she used to like me but I didnt like her then, so what should I do
2006-11-08 15:25:05 · 8 answers · asked by Joho 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
were both 15 and im pretty shy
2006-11-08 15:26:23 · update #1
wow..u wrote her a note...jeez I have to ask my guy friend out because hes like a serious wuss i guess. and im like so freaking out because we only have about two weeks till the winter formal. anyways... thats a hard situation..try asking her or her friend why she doesnt want to and maybe she's forgotton who you really are... show her the real you and just try to have fun around her because we like guys whocan make us laugh and be happy and if she still says no then just realize that you also have your whole life left to find the right girl and that there are sooo many out there that really like you. i wish u lots n lots of luck!! wish me luck 2!!
2006-11-08 15:33:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
15 is a very akward age for females. We are trying to figure out who we are and how much power we truely have. The fact that you rejected her in the begining is probably the reason that she doesn't want anything to do with you now. She probably thinks you only want to go out with her because you couldn't find anyone else. At least that is how you would have made me feel at 15. The fact that you didn't go up to her and ask her fact to face about dating shows me that you aren't ready to be going out with anyone. You need to be able to ask her face to face and show that you are truely interested. What's the worst she can say? NO?? Good luck!
2006-11-08 23:33:00 · answer #2 · answered by Tammy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Asking out by a note is fine... though you really should have given her the note yourself. Next time ask her out- just as friends. Also, make sure your friends actually gave her the note, and that they are not just trying to make you look bad.
2006-11-08 23:30:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you two should start talking more and become friends and see if you have stuff in common. After you get to know each other a little more then you should ask her out in private face to face. If she says no just keep it to yourself and forget it. Everybody doesnt have to know your business.
I hope things go well for you.
2006-11-08 23:28:21 · answer #4 · answered by Mary N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to her more and knowing her as a friend. Don't force it or rush. If she did have a thing for you, you might be able to win her back. Just be nice.
2006-11-08 23:31:34 · answer #5 · answered by flipflop 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ewwwwww your friend gave her a note that you wrote... dude that is the gayest way ever to ask a girl out... get over her because you screwed your chances right there.
2006-11-08 23:26:56 · answer #6 · answered by pat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh good teenage hormones !!!
maybe she rejected you b/c when she loved u
u didn't so that is kind of like a payback
maybe she still loves you but she on;y wanted to give
you a lesson
2006-11-08 23:30:50 · answer #7 · answered by *Unknown* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU REALLY LIKE THIS GIRL THEN WHY DONT YOU
TALK TO HER INSTEAD OF LETTING SOMEONE ELSE
DO IT FOR YOU. THEN YOU WILL SEE FOR YOUR SELF
HOW SHE FEEL. AND IT NOT THERE THEN HER LOST
AND MOVE ON.
2006-11-08 23:31:20 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋