I have known this guy nearly 20 years ago. We were neighbors. He told me a few years ago that he's liked me since I was 7 and he was 9. We've talked on and off over the last 4 or 5 years. He's been with this one girl for about that same time. She's always been a b itch to me because I'm best friends with her man. I don't know why he's even with her, he always seems miserible. Well they got married in july. I've talked to him many times since then. I've liked him since we were kids too, He asked me if I would sleep with him. I don't want to do it because he's married, but something tells me to do it. I have liked this guy for a lon long time. What should I do?
2006-11-08 15:22:30 · 10 answers · asked by L♥G 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wel hes married so yo uhave to ask yourself if its lust or love, and either one it is, can you stand being the one to break up amarriage, but then on that account, maybe you two were meant fo reach other, dont over think it, do what you heart tell syou to. because if you dont do that, it will bug you till your last day, trust your heart its always right.
2006-11-08 15:25:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK sweetie it could be that he is basically running game on you. Don't do it because if you take that step and sleep with him then your feeling are going to grow even more on the strenghtthat you have been with like that and you will only hurt youself when you relieze that he is not gonna leave his wife and you have been played
2006-11-08 23:30:18 · answer #2 · answered by Missy_Eye's 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would I do if I was in a similar position?: Tell her no and say that we both blew our chances.
What should you do: Tell him that if he respects you as a friend that he will never bring it up again. Just because his wife treats you bad does not give you grounds to do what in your heart you know is wrong.
Good Luck.
2006-11-08 23:32:01 · answer #3 · answered by travis_a_duncan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know anything about marriage but i do know that if he's still with this girl, there must be a reason he's not with you. So if you were supposed to get married don't u think it would have happened by now?
2006-11-08 23:28:42 · answer #4 · answered by jrmerch1358 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll just be the "other woman", is that what you want? If he loves you and wants to be with you, he would divorce his wife and go with you. Is that what he plans on doing? If not, you'll just be unhappy because you will want something you can't fully have. I wouldn't do it.
2006-11-08 23:35:48 · answer #5 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. You will feel used and cheap after he goes home to his wife and never talks to you again, because he just got what he wanted from you.
2006-11-08 23:36:52 · answer #6 · answered by faeriemagik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do it...things will get messy...she will find out...say if u wanted me u should have done smthing about it before u got married...and left that slut then we could have been together... gud luck!
2006-11-08 23:25:45 · answer #7 · answered by sara ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it
2006-11-08 23:24:36 · answer #8 · answered by *Unknown* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a LIFE and leave HIS ALONE!!!
2006-11-08 23:26:33 · answer #9 · answered by SoSpecial 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have fun!! Enjoy it while you can!!
2006-11-08 23:26:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋