im so depressed?

Question

im having like the worst week in my life....i got rejected by 2 guys, i lost my purse with all my stuff in it and i cant find it anywhere, me and my best friend are mad at each other and i just fell like im going to burst out into tears...i need help getting over this depressed stage and going back to the normal me..

Answer 1

Believe me sweetie, I know how u feel.

Life can seem overwhelming at times, but u must remember..."this too shall pass". One day this time in your life will be a distant memory.

Try to find the good in your life, focus on what u do have rather than what u do not.

As far as the guys, they're just not for u. U want a guy who feels the same toward u as u do them. There are a ton of men out here, it's gonna be ok.

As far as u and ur best friend,u will work it out, that's why she is your best friend.

I'm really sorry about you losing your purse and that u feel depressed, but I have found that there is a lesson in everything. Look for what u can learn about yourself and try to be positive.

It will all be ok. :)

Answer 2

adversity
very ugly word=reeks with character (they) say
if the guys were together at the rejection that is self explanatory and is too much a guys issue for u to see that i would have been didn't had they not both been in each others faces over it. your okay I'm okay be happy you know how you feel, issues get attention this way nobody runs out there to get crapped on, when you got all the love you needed as a little girl you could depend on it know you have to find it for yourself. brave lil' u, be happy to be in the game, we all want you happy and hope to have a better world, u try and we be here to cheer you on, fill the next purse with only hope that way you still have if you loose the purse, u'll always be depressed we just have to rechannel it on demand, so demand your life be what make you and not be define by it

Answer 3

I'm sorry dear! Everyone has those kinds of times where they have a bad day or week.
Concentrate on the important things right now. Keep looking for your purse-I'm sure it'll turn up. Retrace your steps. Buy a card for your best friend and tell her you're tired of being mad at her. I'm sure it'll blow over and you'll be friends again.
Take a nice, hot bath. Put on a funny movie and relax. Take a vacation, visit family, go shopping, listen to music that makes you happy, talk to other friends. Do whatever makes you feel better...=)

Answer 4

I'm sorry about all that. Getting rejected really sucks, but the best thing I can tell you about that is, even though I know it's hard, try not to let the guys know that it upset you. try to make them think that you could care less. Try to think that you don't need them and that you could do better. As for your purse, is there anyone that could help u look for it? Can the things you missed be replaced in case u can't find it? As for u and your friend being mad at each other, even though it may be hard, try reaching out to her and try to talk out the problems that you two are having.

Answer 5

The thing you should do is do the things you haven't done in a while. Also think about this if those guys rejected you it's okay It's only one week just don't think about it. I know that it is easier to say than do but look when you are around them or you see them just aact like their $hit don't phase you. When i feel like this just think about the future other then just right now like in a couple of weeks you'll pick your peices back up and just stay close to your true friends and don't let the people who bring you down see the down side of you show them how good you are standing on your own two feet without them! and also if you have to cry then cry let it out but when you are at home in your room and then that will really make you feel better cause it kind of feels like you let the pain out.

Answer 6

Take a shower and drink really expensive tea. Keep a journal about your life and look for the pattern that brews up drama. Guys come and go so next time let someone ask you out, buy a new purse, a cute one, and say sorry to your friend even if it wasnt really your fault. Because you need someone to go purse shopping with and when that guy asks you out he may want to double date!

Answer 7

Well, you're talking about what happened, that's a really good first step. Don't let the stupidity of two guys get you down, i'd be more worried about the best friend. And if she's your best friend, i'm sure you two will be able to work things out. It's always hard when things feel like they're piling up... and if you need to cry, THATS OK! Sometimes its good to just let it all out like that instead of bottling it up.

btw, What is the normal "you" like?

Answer 8

It is alright. It happens. Pull your self together. These are minor problems. I am sure you will get over it. Be more careful with your purse. Dont feel helpless. Try to call your best friend and talk to her. Make new friends. There will be may guys who may not feel the same about you.

Answer 9

ell the guys, say **** it, they obviously werent the ones for you(adn i knwo wht your thinking"no your jsut saying that becuase you got someone" nope, not true)the best friend, me and my best friend weve had arguements that ended with fists, and broken furniture at out apartment. its jsut how friends are, but you guys will make up, thats the way it works, your liek family, so you also fight liek family. the purse, well cancel your credit cards, video cards, adn start anew, thats all you can do with that. and as for the presure, wether or not your in school or work do what i do. take a day off, call a sick day or play hooky, just go to a park and relax in the sun, sleep in...trust me, if you feel youre at the bottem, wel lthan thats a bit of a blessing, if youre at the bottom you got nowhere to go but up.

Answer 10

I am sorry you are having a bad week....mine didn't start off to well either but I figured out that even though I was down I could still affect the world around me, and that is the first step in getting out of depression.