okay well all of my friends have boyfriends and i dont. they always brag about them in front of me and they are always talking admiring and looking at them and i feel like i am left out. i dont want one but i still feel left out. i dont think that i need one & i dont want one but i want to have a conversation with them about normal stuff. and everytime i try to talk to people they bring up their hott boyfriends. its like everyone is a relationship lately. dont get me wrong i DONT want a boyfriend but i want to have N0RMAL conversations with people (without them talking about their BFs) ... what should i do?
2006-11-08 15:12:11 · 10 answers · asked by always_here_37 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The lady doth protest too much. Maybe you do want a boyfriend, just a little? Or maybe you just need to find some girls that have a little more balanced lives. There are other things to do, as you seem to know. Join up with people and activities that do not have the opposit sex as their main topic. These girls you are running around with do not seem to be capable of talking about anything else. And good luck, you seem to be heading in a better direction.
2006-11-08 15:17:51 · answer #1 · answered by outdone 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to come up with good conversations yourself. Talk about school, teachers, friends, whatever. If they bring up the boyfriend conversation again, just listen to them and smile. Don't let this get into your mind like if it was a big deal. So what that you don't have a boyfriend, many girls don't have too but that doesn't mean that they don't have interesting ideas to talk about. Be cool.
2006-11-08 23:23:01 · answer #2 · answered by AmAr A ciegAs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, I guess I am included in your description of "everyone," so I am going to attempt to answer your question. Either find yourself a quick bf to just use in randome conversations, otherwise just change the topic of conversation when your friends talk about theirs! It is really that easy. You could always fake interest too, o ryou could turn the entire situation around and make them seem like they are losers for spending all their time and energy on boys. It is all in how you argue it. I mean, you could make it cool to be single, by telling them about all the cool stuff you do and such! Who cares, make up stories if need be. Just do anything to get into the conversation and make yourself seem cool. Good luck!
2006-11-08 23:16:46 · answer #3 · answered by Justin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have heard you say that you don't want a boyfriend several times. Who are you trying to convince? If these people are your friends, and the subject of their boyfriends, makes them happy, you should be glad for them. Do not be spiteful about their choice of conversation. If you can not be satisfied with this maybe your are not a true friend.
2006-11-08 23:18:57 · answer #4 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally feel ya. My friends are the same way. I do want a boyfriend, but I'm not desperate. It still bugs me. Try to find another single friend like yourself to talk about different things.
2006-11-08 23:16:22 · answer #5 · answered by Mel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should get new friends who don't obsess about a boyfriend they probably won't have a week later? If they seriously don't have anything else to talk about besides guys, they must be pretty boring anyway.
2006-11-08 23:15:21 · answer #6 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them to shut up !!! Because they probably want have a boyfriend pretty soon and then they will be crying on your shoulder.
2006-11-08 23:17:32 · answer #7 · answered by jsxy695 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you wanna have bf? get one and be happy. at least you'll have something to talk about with your friends. if you just wanna talk to someone about different things, join a chat room.
2006-11-08 23:15:57 · answer #8 · answered by Mila 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is normal when someone thinks they r in love or infatuated....either get u one or get new friends or ask the ones you have to not talk about them
tell your friends how u feel
2006-11-08 23:18:53 · answer #9 · answered by sherryw_1978 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk about your girlfriend.
2006-11-08 23:14:38 · answer #10 · answered by Docta Jones 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋