I completely agree because it usually happens like that. Have you ever gone on vacation and found a love interest, notice how the relationship picks up so quick cause you realize you won't see this person ever again. Sure you had a great time but when time passes by and you don't get know affection you start to forget
2006-11-08 15:09:26
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answered by monte_x2 2
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When you first meet someone every part of your body is responding, firing neurons, and sending out signals. Then you get to know someone and you are not just attracted to them but you like who they are as a person. Then you become close and develop a bond. Over time all that usually turns in to something comfortable feeling, safe, and lasting. Not everyone keeps the sparks going throughout their whole marriage, instead other things develop which mean just as much. It is always important to keep some of the same interests or show interest in your partners hobbies or job. Keeping a strong bond comes wiith love and tolerance, happiness and tragedies, and most of all sustains you through life.
2006-11-08 23:14:20
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answered by Serinity4u2find 6
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They say absence makes the heart grow fonder, but also out of sight, out of mind. I think short infrequent absences can be good because it gives you something to talk about when you are together. And time to imagine what it will be like when you reconnect. But all relationships need nurturing, so long absences...as in months or years...don't have the same effect. They will wither and die without paying some attention to them. I guess there isn't an easy answer, but this is what I have learned in my experiences. 'Hope it helps.
2006-11-08 23:11:50
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answered by Anonymous
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Its always different with every person. Someone said "Absents makes the heart grow fonder." With me its the opposite. I miss my partner when first left for the first few days, but then I tend to forget about him if I don't see him anymore after that. Yet, if I see him all the time, I tend to get bored too.
2006-11-08 23:11:35
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answered by Anonymous
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when a person loses interest in a relationship....most of the time i think its b/c the relationship has become boring and routined...thats why it's not always good to be in each others face 24/7 a good way to keep your partner interested is to do things that they wouldnt expect you to do...never be too available but at the same time don't become too distant...yet both of you are entitled to your own space....try not to repeat the same cycle over and over again....just like a movie your eventually going to get bored of it if you keep watching it over and over again why??? because you already know whats going to happen so thats why it's important to change up so your relationship wont fade out.
2006-11-08 23:36:25
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answered by tanya m 4
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see i am the opposite i think time apart can make things stay more thrilling...i have a hard time staying intereseted & happy with someone thats with me all the time...sometimes we just let our mind drift on too much...& sometimes become more curious about who or what else may be out here....just seems that many people are just not happy anymore no matter who they are with...i know i am not happy but its not cause of my spouse its just depression
2006-11-08 23:12:57
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answered by yahooligan 6
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well Yes ppl do lose interest...but that doesnot mean they r interested in someone else....u can take an exp.if u r hungry & u want food...1 hr..2 hr ...3 hr..ur hunger will grow & one time will come when it'll die.& u wont feel like eating anymore....so love is like hunger..
so u want the other person dont loose interest...do give him reminder calls...& sweet surprises sometimes..
2006-11-08 23:16:37
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answered by shweta - 3
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this is why long distance relationships dont work out very well. people need to be near each other (within a short drives distance) for the feelings to stay
2006-11-08 23:14:25
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answered by Davy D 4
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An appropriate amount of space is healthy and good for a relationship... but too much time apart can be damaging. You know what they say... out of sight out of mind.
2006-11-08 23:14:43
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answered by Anonymous
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the hot and heavy phase always passes. It is possible to loose interest. You have to WORK to keep it fresh
2006-11-08 23:44:03
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answered by married2dfuzz7 2
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