im a 34EE in bra. im completely natural, but was never uncomfortable with my body. i was a firm believer of be proud what you were given. when i was younger girls would make snidy comments over my boobs and many boys id go out with , the 1st thing they would ask me can i feel your boobs. as i got older ive covered up my boobs when i go out and feel like i cant wear the same clothes as my friends who have smaller breasts. a month ago when i was out clubbing i was a vicitm of drug rape. and the only people i told were my friends. instead of them helping me through it , they slagged me saying it was my fault i was raped because i have big boobs but i had them covered up and was wondering do you think my friends are right. now all my friends say that they cant be bothered going out with me because there scared just being with me will get them raped. i cant believe the way there acting. am i in the wrong
2006-11-08 15:04:25 · 17 answers · asked by pattoner06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
of course you are not in the wrong.. u need new friends. i am currently a 38 dd and still growing and i am very comfortable with my body because yes female has the same i just got a different size....i think you just need new friends
2006-11-08 15:08:06 · answer #1 · answered by crazyhofprincess 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe your friends are right. It's not your fault of what happen at the club either, you just met the wrong person it could happen to anybody. From the looks of it you sound like a woman with a pretty good head on her shoulders and will over come this problem. I'd look for new friends and wouldn't bother with what other people think of your looks.
2006-11-08 15:19:38 · answer #2 · answered by Hound 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your friends are so wrong honey it is not your fault you got raped. nobody asked to be raped wither you have big boobs or not. Have you ever stopped to think that your friends my be a little jealous. I have big boobs to and my friends always made comments and come to find out they were jealous. Just remember this it is not your fault or your boobs fault and if they were any kind of friends they would have protected you and not hurt you even more than you were already.
2006-11-08 15:13:07 · answer #3 · answered by jsxy695 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What! It is not the fault of your boobs. I could say that it was your fault for not being more careful. But again things happen. So, I would recommend that you forget the allegations that your friends are giving to you and it seems that it is time for some new friends. I can't believe it such people exist.
2006-11-08 15:14:10 · answer #4 · answered by shkabaj 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your friends are not true friends it is never a persons falut when they are raped. You can't contorl your body and you should be proud of your body honey the next time you go out NEVER leave your cup alone don't even trun around keep your hand over it at all times unlis you are drinking it watch the bar tender to make sure he isn't helping no one or isn't the one and report this to the police.
2006-11-08 15:10:44 · answer #5 · answered by blood_shadow_walks 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you are not the one that is wrong they are wrong and they are just hatin on what you got! And like don't let your friends bring you down and like you said be proud of what you were given.Don't let anyone else discourage you from what you got! And also if anything it's your friends fault that they were not there to have your back when that jerk drug raped you. I mean you did nothing wrong your friends did they should of had your back like i said.
2006-11-08 15:11:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
And you are STILL calling them your "FRIENDS" ?? I think not! Telling you that it's your fault you were raped because of your well endowed breast size, is just as bad as saying that someone is asking to be raped if they are wearing something a little more revealing. Make new friends!!
2006-11-08 15:13:48 · answer #7 · answered by margierosie1026 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should really let them go. They are not your friends to say some stupid $hit like that. IT IS NEVER YOUR FAULT. Now I believe that maybe your friends may be a little jealousy of you. And that is why they are treating you this way. But honestly you should let them go.People like that you don't need in you life. Negatively is not what it is about. Life is too short
2006-11-08 15:09:30 · answer #8 · answered by Missy_Eye's 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a- get better friends. In fact just get some real friends 'cause those people aren't
b- get some counseling for the rape, and for the issues with large chests. there are many women who have had issues with this.
c- contact your doctor. large breasts can create health issues later on, especially with the back and shoulders. You can get a reduction surgery as a preventative measure and to help you not have to deal with behavior such as this
d- of course it's not your fault!! counseling will help you find that out for yourself.
2006-11-08 15:08:07 · answer #9 · answered by smm 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
WHAT KIND OF FRIENDS DO YOU HAVE. FRIENDS CARE ABOUT YOU. HOPE YOU REPORTED THIS RAPE. SOME PEOPLE JUST WANT THINGS FOR THEMSELVES AND DON'T THINK THAT THEY'RE REALLY HURTING THE OTHER PERSON. SOUNDS LIKE YOU TRY TO ACT LIKE A LADY, SORRY THIS HAD TO HAPPEN TO YOU. DON'T LET YOUR DRINK OUT OF YOUR HANDS WHEN AT A BAR. IT'S THE BEST WAY.
2006-11-08 15:09:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋