I'm good friends with a great guy that I have a crush on. He teases me a lot, tickling me and scaring me, picking me up at innoportune moments (he doesn't do this to other girls). He's over-protective of me and knows more about me than anyone else. We haven't known each other that long, but already he's really caring.
He says he thinks of me as a little sister but by the way he looks at me and treats me I don't think he does.
Anyway, he has lots of girls that like him and he knows it. He also has told me who he likes, and it wasn't me. I was just wondering if it was possible he liked me.
Yesterday he said I was special, one of a kind and was complementing me a lot. we talk for hours everynight, and a lot of the time he ends up staying up too late trying to finish his homework because we talk for too long.
He also knows my relationship history and knows I'm afraid of getting hurt. If he does possibly like me, could this maybe stop him from saying anything about it?
2006-11-08 15:03:06 · 10 answers · asked by Mina V 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he already told you he likes someone and it wasnt you, and he said he thinks of you as smaller sister...it doesnt sound like he likes you...just wait, give it some more time and see if anything happens...if he likes you, i am sure he'll let you know somehow...
2006-11-08 15:07:00 · answer #1 · answered by Mila 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry but this guy sounds like a player. Yes he likes you, but he doesn't like you enough because if he did he wouldn't talk about other girls. I f he really really liked you he would tell you that and not play the games he is playing. Unfortunately he is testing to see how much you are willing to take and if he can BE with you but not really. You know that author that has the book "He's just not that into you" That's this. Dont waste your time. Find a really great one. You wont have to ask anyone what to do with a guy that treats you right, but be picky.
2006-11-08 15:11:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl hes a keeper. They say best friends make the best partners. Keep it a friendship though. I'm sure hes thought about you in that way but let him make the first move. You said a lot of girls is liking on him and he has a crush on someone. Like you said he knows you been hurt. With him having mixed feelings and trying to figure out what he wants he wants to keep that friendship with you cause hes protective of you and dont want to hurt you. Dont rush anything itll all fall into place.
2006-11-08 15:10:32 · answer #3 · answered by meka g 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Man I can feel u on this one.
I don't want to discourage u, but in my experience(it sounds almost identical to what I went through) it turned out he really only liked me as a friend.
I mean it was the same thing u are talking about. He would talk to me on the phone for hours, we spent hours chilling together. I would go to his house.
He also, however would do what this guy is doing, and compliment me, while also telling me the girls he liked.
I say, don't concentrate on this guy. Try to look at him as just a friend. If he likes u he will come around, even if he knows you've been hurt in the past.
I don't wanna see u set yourself up for heartache like I did. It sucks.
Good luck!
2006-11-08 15:09:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok so i am no expert but i was in this exact situation only i was the guy i told her that i liked some one else but i liked them both my good friend just asked me if i would ever let a relation ship get in the way of our friendship and i told herthe truth "no" because i cared about her and our friend ship and any way i dated girl 2 for like a week and relized i had made a big mistake i wish that my good friend had made a little more of a hint that she liked me. then i would have just dated her and it would ave saved me frome the worst relationship(if you could call it that only one week) of my life. yes me and my best friend went out forabou 6 months but it ended because she moved.
so from my experiance i would say make the first move like hold his hand or some thing small that would not leave you with a akward silence afterward. don't just ask "what if we went out or something because that puts pressure on him and he might just chiken out and say that would be cool and then you guys would laugh about it and nothing would hapen.
be smooth and even if he goes out with that other girl just be his best friend it will drive her nuts that her boy is spending time with another girl and eventualy he will have to decide.
hope that helps
2006-11-08 15:18:34 · answer #5 · answered by murraybryson786 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He defnitely likes you or he is gay. I still think he likes you because he wouldn't say all that stuff and do that for nothing. He reminds me of myself shy afraid to speak up for himself, or he might be waiting for your move first or even just a sign of affection from you.
2006-11-08 15:06:25 · answer #6 · answered by monte_x2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i WOULD SAY IF HE TOLD YOU HE SEES YOUU AS A LITTLE SISTER THEN HE IS NOT INTERESTED IN ANY OTHER WAY.LITTLE SISTER MEANS HE SEES YOU AS WAY TOO YOUNG
2006-11-08 15:05:34 · answer #7 · answered by ***BUTTERFLY*** 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it sounds like he likes you
2006-11-08 15:05:41 · answer #8 · answered by K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him how u fell ... take the risk
2006-11-08 15:06:24 · answer #9 · answered by legna20v 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should be friends cause its better to be just friends.
2006-11-08 15:05:34 · answer #10 · answered by THE MOTHERFUCKING PRINCESS 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋