I am 5'3 and 105 lbs. I'm curvy, but still skinny. My boyfriend told me I don't have a butt. I never really thought how much it would bother me before because I work to KEEP it small. Is it wrong to have a small butt? It's not flat, but it's not big either. It's normal size. {God, I can't believe I'm talking about this}.
Also, guys, can you tell me why you like girl's butts so much? My boyfriend told me "More cushion for the pushin' ". What is the reason?
2006-11-08 15:02:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't care about that sort of thing, to me a relationship is based almost completely on personality. it doesn't matter to any man who actually likes you for who you are if you don't have something popular culture thinks is 'hot'. in reality the guys who are picky about that sort of thing are only after one thing.
2006-11-08 15:09:15 · answer #1 · answered by Davy D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I hope that your boyfriend has more interests than your butt, perhaps like how big of a heart you have or how kind you are. It sounds to me that he's kind of immature. Now don't get me wrong men are visual and seem to have a physical attraction before anything else, but I would be highly insulted if my boyfriend made a comment like that to me. The devlish part of me would tell him he has a small penis. That is the absolute worse thing that you can tell a guy and it's cruel even when it sometimes true. But my point is that it would teach him about being immature and insensitive. One last thought, I have never had a guy to ask me to give him some butt... I usually can give him what he needs and it's not a butt.
2006-11-08 15:10:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well for starters if your boyfriend doesnt like your butt the way it is then he has a problem, it really shouldn't bother you because everybody is unique not everyone is the same, maybe your butt is not the best but i now for sure theres other things you have that make up for it.
well the only reason i like big butts is cuz it looks nice and curvy,but it doesn't look good on all girls, and your boyfriend only says that to be perverted, he needs to grow up and love you for what you got.
2006-11-08 15:12:00 · answer #3 · answered by jcslimer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you look good it doesn't matter what your but size is. If every body looked the same then it would be a pretty boring world. I work very hard at keeping my self in shape but i do it more for my self than anything. I f you don't like the way i look that's fine and you should feel good about yourself and the way you look, if you don't than do something to change that.
2006-11-08 15:12:22 · answer #4 · answered by rcspaint@sbcglobal.net 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your boyfriends idea of a small butt may be different from other people's idea of one. some girls got it and some don't. its not their fault cause that's how God made them. why do you work to keep it small? your skinny enough. it seems like you wanna change for people. he liked you knowing the size of your butt so why is he bothering you about it? gurl, just leave your butt alone.
2006-11-08 15:10:51 · answer #5 · answered by truth hurts 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-03 10:48:45 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This Butt's for me. I think a very nice, small butt is very HOT. At your height, and weight, It sounds like you have a very nice body. You know what they say "Dynamite comes in small packages" and I am a firm believer in that. You keep working on that small dynamite butt, and if your boyfriend don't like it.....Call me ASAP.
2006-11-08 15:09:01 · answer #7 · answered by Speedbuggy43 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
God, I can't believe I answered this.....its not bad having a small butt....according to me....but ha ha I bet my butt is bigger than yours!
2006-11-08 15:06:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
if he is gonna toss it, and leave it, I will pull up quick to retrieve it...
2006-11-08 15:06:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋