he told me he was in love w/ me, then told me that he had a cuddle buddy and if i had a prob with that we couldnt date...i asked him "why did you not tell me this a month ago" he said "what?? a month..y" i said " cause thats when we started ******* dating" and he was all like"oh i forgot"
i broke it off a few days later and i guess i really hurt him
but i talked to him today and he kept saying how hes still in love with me and what not. and i told him that i need to think alot of things out. and he got all defensive and was like "sam, i love you, its just hard, you dont understand"
and i dont know if i still love him or not
please help?!?!?!? its so confusing
should we take a break and try again later or what???
if it helps at all im almost 16 and hes almost 17
2006-11-08 14:52:56 · 9 answers · asked by samantha 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he has a cuddle buddy, time to tell him to take a hike. You are only 16, I hope you are still in school, and if you are, you will meet so many more guys, that you would like to have for your b/f. I think its time you do some scouting around. don't get serious till you are like 20 or 21. You have lots of time, to get serious. Get out there, and forget about him, for now anyways. If you have a real love going, you both will be back to each other. don't rush it....
2006-11-08 14:59:32 · answer #1 · answered by Speedbuggy43 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is really your "ex" boyfriend then you have no problem, his cuddle buddy has the problem. He told you that if you had a problem with the cuddle buddy then he wasn't going to date you. But then when you broke off with him, he suddenly remembers how much he loves you. That is one of the oldest lines in the book.
Let him see if this "buddy" can cuddle his blues away and you need to stand firm in your decision. If you have to wonder if you love him then there isn't really much to be confused about. Sounds like you got away just in time before you got squashed.
He is so hurt because you broke off with him before he got a chance to drop you. You hurt his pride and they is why he is trying to make you feel guilty. If you are foolish enough to give him another chance, it probably won't last but a few days or a week at the most.
2006-11-08 15:05:03 · answer #2 · answered by Big mama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like the player type if you ask me... He is the type I'm going to tell my daughter to stay away from. Not only that but he hurted you. Make him show you with actions that he is still in love with you. Don't always give in as soon as they call. play hard to get a little and if he is sincere then he will still be there. you also have a lot to learn because your very young and only experience will teach you that. Dont give in just like that, because he will lose respect for you and use you.
2006-11-08 15:05:23 · answer #3 · answered by pretty me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is my dear child a LOSER if he has to have 2 of you then you don't need him at all, if he loves you he would not want anyone but you so listen child he is as I said a BIG LOSER, go on with your life you are young and don't need to be tied down with just one silly boy you have a lifetime of loving to do before that happens school college career he is not worth it sorry but I am straight and to the point, Be Smart and Be Wise, GOOD LUCK in your future
2006-11-08 14:58:24 · answer #4 · answered by kb_babydoll6@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Cuddle buddy"? Come on. This is not acceptable for your boyfriend, unless you are totally ok with this, and he is ok with you having possible "cuddle buddies". Do you really want him being physical with someone else? In my opinion, it show lack of respect and the desire to be intimately satisfied with someone other than you, his girlfriend. Dont accept this behaviour! But this is just my opinion.
2006-11-08 14:56:37 · answer #5 · answered by ophierose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't take a break, take a hike . you are very young and don't realise that this kind of behaviour will continue.if he does it to you he will do it again and to any one he is dating. he wants a foot in both camps . it's not love he feels it's lust .move on and don't get serious with anyone until you are at least 20
2006-11-08 14:57:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're bf is right...you don't understand. That's because there is nothing to understand. He's confusing you because he's confused.
Take a break...take a loooooooong break...as in don't look back. There are too many good guys out there to waste your time on this loser.
2006-11-08 14:56:55 · answer #7 · answered by SafetyDancer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i dont really think he loves you because when your in love you only care about that one person like me i dont care about any other girl but the girl i love and i would never have a ''cuddle buddy'' because i only care what one girl thinks. and if he really loved you he would care more about you then a ''cuddle buddy''
2006-11-08 14:56:46 · answer #8 · answered by crawlingman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him and move on you are too young to have all this drama in your life. there is plenty of time for drama. go on and dump this loser. good luck and god bless and happy thanksgiving.
2006-11-08 14:56:41 · answer #9 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋