I think i'm in love with someone i've been dating but I'm scared to tell him and i think he'll think i'm weird. He asked me if i loved him but i didn't say anything. Can you love someone after a short time?
2006-11-08 14:52:19 · 14 answers · asked by bettyaboop510 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thank you all so much.
2006-11-08 21:46:48 · update #1
I think Love is a choice, and as for the telling him you Love him . the best thing to do is say i LOVE the way you...(fill in the blanks) or I Love it when you.... and one way to get him to feel it for you is to copy cat him. not outright bu if he laughs ,laugh back. if he is at dinner and gets a sip of tea, pick your glass up, non chalantly. DO NOT BE OBVIOUS. when u do this it sends a subliminal message to him that you two really click. he wont know why he feels like that but he will for sure feel it. when he talks be "intrigued " never look away when he is talking. and take an opportunity to touch his hand or pat him on the shoulder or the famous gentle brush against him on the way to the car or in the house. men dont remember what u wore or what the conversation was about they remember the touch and the feeling of connection.the scent you wore and the size of your butt and boobs...COME ON GUYS ...AM I TELLING A LIE?
2006-11-08 15:00:42 · answer #1 · answered by ***BUTTERFLY*** 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I believe u can.
Sometimes everything is just "there" already.
There's nothing wrong with that. You can be in love with someone but you still need to take time to truly get to know them. That's where a lot of ppl make a mistake. They fall in love and throw all common sense to the wind.
Good luck!
2006-11-08 14:56:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think Its very possible to Love in a short time I dont think things like that have a time limit..... I think you should be completely honest with him though, If youre not sure say so.....but tell him as soon as you know for sure. Also ask him how he REALLY feels that should help you when deciding if you love him
2006-11-08 14:57:29 · answer #3 · answered by 123NO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure !! Your heart knows when its right. My husband and I met Dec 23 of 2004 he was actually my boss. We began dating outside of work Jan 20 of 2005. March 3 we moved into our first home together he proposed March 13th we were married June 11 2005. And have been happily married over a year now and we bought our first home this year. It may not always be this way for everyone but follow your heart if its right you will know. Good Luck
2006-11-08 14:57:14 · answer #4 · answered by brookesingsalways 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is love? How do we define it? Simple answer is that only you know if you are in love or not. Telling him can be a good idea or a bad one, depends on how he feels unfortunately. I'll just say that it's best to be honest, and fortune favours the bold.
2006-11-08 14:57:20 · answer #5 · answered by John Doe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can. Alot say you can't, but I believe you can. I relized I fell in love with my now husband in probely 3months. Also my 1st husband, I fell in love with him at first sight and fell in love with HIM within two months and got married after 6mo. We were married for 6yrs and have 3 beautiful kids. Unfortantly we were unable to stay together but we are good friends now. There is nothing wrong with falling in love in a short time. Just take your time in advancing your relationship..(marriage ect.) Me and my husband got engaged after 4months and had a 2yr engagment. We have been married for 3months now. Anyway...good luck.
2006-11-08 14:59:03 · answer #6 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's absolutely possible. I'm in a similar position right now, only the genders are reversed. I'm not sure how she'll react if I tell her right now, especially since we're trying to take things slowly.
2006-11-08 15:42:54 · answer #7 · answered by tigeracts03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him tell him, and it he truly cares for you as well then it shouldnt be a big deal...there is no law that says how long you need to wait to fall in love. No one can control your feelings towards other people.
2006-11-08 14:55:41 · answer #8 · answered by Aby 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I fell in love after just 6 months of dating. It can happen.
2006-11-08 15:11:49 · answer #9 · answered by Janet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how old are you.
Because with age, comes experience.
Ya gotta give it some time for it to actually become real love.
2006-11-08 14:56:00 · answer #10 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋