hey i guess i'm not the only one going through this!! i'm in high school and i just got enough courage to talk myself into asking him to our winter formal, but i still have to do it and my nerves are driving me insane because i am deathly afraid of him saying no because i absolutely love him. so in your case just start talking to him like in a more flirtatious way and (this is what i did) if you know at least one of his friends ask them to mention something about you and see what he says. this is something my mom just recently told me. i have always been terrified of roller coasters and a few months ago for our graduation we took a trip to 6flags and was convinced into going on one even though i nearly had a panic attack. but once it was all over i had enjoyed it immensely and i now look forward to any school break since we bought season passes, but i cant believe it took me 14 years to get over my fear, anyways. she said that like the roller coaster situation you just gotta hold your head up high and do it or else you will never know and it may turn out that he will say yes and it will be such a huge relief. but if he does say no, realize that it isn't the end of the world and that there are so many other guys out there for you. i wish you the best of luck and hopefully you will wish me luck too!
2006-11-08 15:00:33
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answered by Anonymous
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Be aggressive! Next time you see him, ask him a couple of questions about himself (people love to talk about themselves). Once this discussion is open, look for any interest that you have in common. Then, tell him that you should talk more about this over coffee (or at lunch, etc.). If he doesn't respond to that, he isn't interested. Don't feel bad if he's not interested. Just forget about him and find someone who likes you for who you are...
2006-11-08 22:57:38
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answered by Johnny Q. 3
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it depends.
if he gives you hints tht hes interested
then go for it.
try taking it up a another level
and see if hes interested in u.
2006-11-08 22:51:09
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answered by Anonymous
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just go talk to and see how he feels and then see if u can make your move
2006-11-08 23:13:46
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answered by Joho 7
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i say you should get to know him more. get his number and call him sometime. if he starts calling you from time to time and is single then you should ask him out.
2006-11-08 22:52:39
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answered by truth hurts 4
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lolz...
take it from a guy...go in 4 teh kill girl
2006-11-08 22:52:16
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answered by lightning_bots 2
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