There is this girl in my class that asked me to dance with her and I turned down. I told her that I wasn't in the mood. At the time she asked me for a dance, she was in a relationship. It seems that she likes me.I might add that she recently told me that she broke up with her boyfriend. I am perplexed. What should I do? Should I make the move. Mind you I'm afraid of rejection
2006-11-08 14:39:17 · 9 answers · asked by hey101 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She basically already showed you she likes you, I mean what does she have to do? Kiss you or start strippig in front of you?
Tell her you were shocked and confused at the time, cuz ur shy, but now that you've clamed down you would love to spend some time with her to get to know her better.
Work it from there.
2006-11-08 14:44:41 · answer #1 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all to be rejected, if you did the asking and she turned you down but the way i see it, it was her that asked you to dance with her and you turned her down. Now put yourself in her shoes. OK so you say that she told you that she broke up with her boyfriend I think that this girl has feelings for you, talk to her and see where it goes and the next time she asks you to dance don't turn her down and say that you aren't in the mood. Get up and dance with her pref ably a nice slow dance where you can hold her close to you
2006-11-08 22:56:41 · answer #2 · answered by doubleg2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She already showed interest by asking you to the dance before so you have a good chance she will say yes. Toughen up. Everyone gets rejected, if you don't make an effort you'll never get dates. Men are expected to make the first move.
2006-11-08 22:45:25 · answer #3 · answered by girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOur dumb. If she asked you to dance then you should have said yes if you liked her!! If she asked you to dance and tells you her and her boyfriend broke up why would she reject you?
2006-11-08 22:44:53 · answer #4 · answered by Kay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
COMMUNICATION - - talk to her and tell her why you turned her down for a dance and then go from there. You have nothing to lose at this point but it's possible you have something to gain!
2006-11-08 22:44:09 · answer #5 · answered by cheezehead 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think u should make a move she is putting herself out there so u will make a move and if she rejects u no biggie there's more fish in the sea hope i have helped u have faith in ur self is all that matters
2006-11-08 22:46:02 · answer #6 · answered by ladycarry12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look at it this way.. if you dont go at all..youll never know if youll be rejected..id much rather go and find out she dosent like me, than sit at home and wonder if i could be having fun and stuff..just go!! what do you have to lose?.. plus, rejection is a part of life!!
2006-11-08 22:43:30 · answer #7 · answered by red77chevy350 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
take a daring move and ask her out sumwhere to dance or sumthin. get to know her and see if shes interested in you
2006-11-08 22:43:47 · answer #8 · answered by nerdy_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey halo wake up, open your eyes, love is a game. she hint to you, ask you and you re still sleeping? just act normal and date her out, care for her a little express a bit of love without saying i love you. then she will make her move. you will know wat comes next. tell you wat i married my wife without saying i love her or propose to her.
2006-11-08 22:46:17 · answer #9 · answered by andy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋