High School Girls Please Answer! Trying to get to know a shy girl!?

Question

I've fallen for this sophomore girl, I am a senior. I don't happen to have any classes with her this year due to the age gap.... But I do see her around the halls alot. I've approached her 3 times already and she does hold a smile whenever I'm talking to her. But she's extremely quiet and hesitant. Sometimes I think she might not like me or I might not be good enough for her etc. She's extremely beautiful but doesn't know any guys around my High School... I find it pretty odd.

Alright back to the point. Whenever I walk past her down the halls she tries to look away and pretend she doesn't see me. So that's why I end up starting conversations to make her notice me a bit more. Whenever she's with her friends she gets quiet and won't say Hi or anything. Is this normal for a shy girl? I've been told by all my guy friends "Give up man" all the girls I asked said I was sweet...

I mean I'm pretty shy too so I know how she feels if I'm understanidn this correctly... What do you guys thin

Answer 1

Oh my--That's so sweet! How the mighty have fallen... Your story sounds like its right out of a book!

The thing is, don't go after her unless you're really going to commit (I know I know, big word that one). I have a girl in my class who dated a a guy two years older than her last year and when her boyfriend went to college a couple hours away they broke up, and he basically broke her heart because of it....So if your just going to date her until you move off to college...don't do it.

If not, don't give up! High school friends can suck. If you like her, and just the way you talk about her, I know you do, ignore your friends and keep up. Maybe ask one of her friends what she thinks of you, or if you're feeling bold ask her yourself. Hang out with her and her friends a lot, talk to her when you can. Make eye contact. She'll get the hint.

Or maybe she's gotten it already. Maybe she's nervous around you, or maybe she just hasn't had a boyfriend before(which sounds like it could be true) and she doesn't know what to do and is waiting for you to make a move. I dunno. Maybe she isn't "allowed" to date yet. Just be her friend and no matter what don't give up on her, because she could be your one and only you know.

Ugh. I'm a hopeless romantic at heart and this sounds so mushy, but yeah. Good luck and if you want more help or just need to talk -- Add me -- MissFancyPants5 on yahoo or hotmail. I would Love to help you more if you need it. : )

Answer 2

Okay I'm a sophomore girl too but I'm not what you would call shy but I do have some advice. If she's shy like you said you probably intimidate her a little so just give it some time. I wouldn't give up just yet though. You've got the whole school year. I'm guessing she's looking away when she sees you in the hall because she's nervous because if she doesn't know many guys in the school and you're really the only one that talks to her, she's a little nervous. That's my best advice is to just not give up quite yet and just let her get used to being around you. Try to be her friend first, not her boyfriend just yet. I hope this helped and good luck!!

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Answer 4

She may not like you or she may be shy. You could be in college before you know if you don't just ask her soon. Bite the bullet and get her alone after school so you won't have to be rushing to a class. Walk her to the bus or car or something. Then just drop the question on her. Go from there, depending on what she says. Better to know for sure than to be asking the people on yahoo.

Answer 5

I think you should keep trying to talk to her. I know i'm shy and it takes a long time for me to be completly comfortable around anyone. She probably is just so shy that she never knows what to say so she doesnt really talk and doesnt want to seem pushy or annoying when passing you in the hallways so she doesnt really say anything. Just keep talking to her and be her friend first then move on from there. good luck!

Answer 6

Go up to her tell her your feelings or write a letter . I know how you feel .Iam in the same thing rigth now. I have the same story . I like a guy in my school i wont even look at him when he stares at me . I think that girl likes u alot that is why she is shy in front of you

Answer 7

awww thats sooo sweet! Its just the way shy girls are, I mean she feels insicure, she might feel as though you are to good for her i.e looks brains ect. talk to her more give her time to open up and trust you, once you get to know someone and learn theyre much different than you its easier to talk to them, I am totally shy and get embarrased VERY easially. Good Luck let us know how it goes

Answer 8

i used to be very very shy like that

it was hard to hold a conversation with me and i'd like NEVER make eye contact because i thought he could see right through me!
try to talk to her online and sit with her at lunch after awhile of talking online and then yano ask her out to a movie or soemthing

youll sweep her off a feet if you give her like a rose or something sweet

hope it helped!

Answer 9

She might be scared of guys. I'm shy and sometimes its scary talking to guys because your friends tease you and stuff and shy people can't really handle embarrassing things...

Answer 10

Well my gess she likes you....some gurls just are seriouly bad at talking to guys. I person for sure. You schould write her or talk online. That would help...Good Luck! get to know her before you ask her thoe.