Same never been kissed 14 year old, HLP!?

Question

One of my best friends is a boy. He's really smart and funny. I like him a lot. And he seems 2 like me 2, but I dunno if only as a very good friend or as something more. He stares at me at times and he's always really interested in what I have 2 say. But my other best friend (this time it's a girl) also thinks he may like her as something else, he stares at her 2. But I dunno, something makes me feel as if he likes me, but maybe he's like that 2 all the girls. I don't want 2 make a move cuz maybe he only likes me as a friend.

What should I think and do?

Answer 1

Hey, well i suggest that you try flirting, talking more dropping some hints, because like you said you two are friends and well you don't want to ruin the friendship but since you have a feeling he likes you too, you are probably right, listen to your gut, if you see things and feel it and it adds up, go ahead and talk to him about, if he's really your friend you won't lose him, and if he likes you then that would be awesome, so give it a shot, flirt first and see how he reacts with that.. Good luck. God Bless. =)

Answer 2

You need to gather more clues and evidence upon which to substantiate your belief that he may be interested in you. Find every available opportunity to spend time with him - in the morning before classes, during lunch, after school, during class breaks, at gym, etc. This will not only give you a better feel about how he acts towards you, but will also allow you to watch him as he encounters other girls, to see if he treats them all the same or if he really does treat you as special. So, just do some field work, and then based upon the evidence gathered, makie your "move" accordingly. Good luck!

Answer 3

Listen, you have time to be hung up on boys. you are only 14. I didn't kiss a boy until i was 15. I am now engaged and getting married at 22. People always said "you're time will come." I never believed them, but you know what, they were right. Take your love life in stride, and everything will fall into place. If you really want to know how he feels about you or your friend, just ask him. He will be honest, and then you will know for sure. Good luck!

Answer 4

You know friendships last longer than relationships. You're just 14 and still young, give it time. He's a teenager afterall, he's got hormones, therefore, he will do a lot of staring and thinking about girls.

Answer 5

Go for a date, not a real date, but just to see hor far you are right about this feeling.

Try to kiss him, he'll be the king of the day.

Answer 6

i've got had some crushes earlier yet i've got in no way had a boyfriend and that i've got in no way been kissed to boot and that i'm sixteen and my reasoning is fairly lots the comparable as yours... the lads i admire finally end up in no way understanding or no longer being fascinated and the lads that like me are in no way my style =

Answer 7

I didn't have my first kiss until I was 18. Don't be in such a hurry to grow up, go hang out with him at the mall. :)

Answer 8

BE FRANK. JUST ASK HIM WHY HE STARES AT YOU ALL THE TIME. (conversation starter) THEN THE TRUTH SHALL SET YOU FREE. BESIDES IF IT DOES TURN OUT THAT HE LOOKS AT ALL GIRLS LIKE THAT, THEN YOU REALLY DONT NEED HIM....RIGHT? GOOD NIGHT AND GOOD LUCK.

Answer 9

Im 13/f...lot's of girls your age have this problem.It's simple you go to his buddies and ask them what he thinks of you.Or the old school version...pass notes.good luck.

Answer 10

Well try to up your relationship and go to hang out in groups then shrink it then go just with him. He will like you then. Trust me.