2006-11-08 13:49:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Before you became bf/gf did you tell him you expected him to act different? If not, what do you expect?
2006-11-08 13:51:32 · answer #1 · answered by Everyman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really dont understand if he acts the same and you entered into a offical relationship there must of been something you liked. I think the biggest misconception is that people try to change one another once they entered the relationship. You have to either love them for what they are or cut them loose.
Good Luck.
2006-11-08 21:52:22 · answer #2 · answered by godiva_kisses 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully he was acting in a way that you liked when you two were friends? Or, sorry, that wasn't much of an answer. I take it you want a little more 'romance and affection' out of him? So let him know. Not in a way that's critical of him, but let him know you like it when 'such and such' happens and when he does 'this and that', etc. Encourage him, in a way that won't get him upset or discouraged, to be more romantic with you from time to time. Just don't expect that type of thing 'all' of the time.
2006-11-08 21:52:12 · answer #3 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well think about it why did you go out with him if you were just friends? probly because something he did now the title changed and he is expected to change what he did that made you like him to begin with? you may be putting to much into this whole friend and "BOY" friend or you could tell him hey i love you but i dont feal that u feal for me as much and see what he says but be careful that answer could kill a realationship faster than anything only use as last resort if nothin else work good luck with this : )
2006-11-08 21:53:01 · answer #4 · answered by unknownmagician 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may let him know how much you are not happy with the relationship in which he acts like friend.This will drive your relationship forward.The other thing I want to stress is the development of a relationship takes some time.
Good luck
2006-11-08 21:55:25 · answer #5 · answered by Gone Car 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you sould talk to him about how you feel! And tell him that he shouldn't be acting like that whe he is your boyfriend! Maby if u try to talk to him it will get through his head that u love him and that you don't want to lose him but probley if he keeps acting like that something might go wrong!!
2006-11-08 21:52:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be open and talk to him about it. Communication is the main key to a relationship.
2006-11-08 21:50:46 · answer #7 · answered by elprez14 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would you like to do? Did you want to get closer and more intimate? If yes, then let him know, or do that yourself in actions and get him into it. If he is backing off, something is wrong.
2006-11-08 21:50:29 · answer #8 · answered by leazngurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on what you did when you were just friends. Tell him what you told us... maybe he just needs a jumpstart to the next level.
2006-11-08 21:53:51 · answer #9 · answered by Laura M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him something like"id like to take this relationship to a new level" and explain to him what you mean or something like that.
2006-11-08 21:51:01 · answer #10 · answered by bludevil260_ya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋