hey what's up im thinking of asking this girl out but I've asked her out b4 and she said i thought we were best friends but i really like her. i was thinking about just sending her a message via myspace (not a comment) what is the best way?
2006-11-08 13:43:36 · 12 answers · asked by shanestewart22 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Um.. wait.. can you send me an e-mail katekitty234@yahoo.com It sounds like I know you and my name is basically in your sn.. please e-mail right now..
2006-11-08 13:47:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing to do is to be as casual about it as possible. Don't try to be bold else you may scare her away. Just ask her to go hang out and assure her that you will be going out as friends and nothing else. Let the true meaning come out as you are together. Its always good to use the passive approach and not let them see you coming. That way if she bites on the bate, you've had your catch. If not, then you know you are still friends and there will be more time for you to try again. If you tell her now, she will know your intentions and more than likely wont want to go out with you do to fear that it will affect the friendship you both have together.
2006-11-08 21:53:04 · answer #2 · answered by osito 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eh', I don't mean to discourage you, but if you've tried once and she said no, I would atleast give it some time and a watchful eye to see if there is any change between you two before you go and ask her again. All you'll do now, most likely, is just push her away from the friend status.
2006-11-08 21:45:57 · answer #3 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you've already said, she told you she thought you two were best friends. If her feelings haven't changed and she still only sees you as a friend, then she won't go out with you. If she sees you differently, it wouldn't hurt to ask again.
2006-11-08 21:46:58 · answer #4 · answered by Rex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her face to face so that you can explain yourself. Also if she says that she doesnt want to ruin a good friendship by going out point out that the best relationships are built on friendship
2006-11-08 21:47:09 · answer #5 · answered by JR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say i know we are best friends but i would like to try a boyfriend girl friend relationship. Just ask her. DONT USE MY SPACE
2006-11-08 21:46:21 · answer #6 · answered by knowssignlanguage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was just say Hey ........ there is this movie coming out would you want to go with me or, hey would you like to go to Outback stake house (or another restraint) with me on Saturday night.
2006-11-08 21:47:10 · answer #7 · answered by LOVELY LADY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u do it urself instead of having a friend do it, girls appreciate it more...i no from experience...no guy has ever asked me out...i think that would feel a WHOLE LOT better than having his friend do it...that is my best bet
2006-11-08 21:47:05 · answer #8 · answered by cool chic 2no 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her, and dont use myspace for asking out
2006-11-08 21:46:08 · answer #9 · answered by raff608 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her face to face. Tell her how you feel about her.
2006-11-08 21:44:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋