ok so this guy tells me he loves me and stuff all the time but i dont feel it... the truth is we were on a church retreat and we ended up making out in one of the shower stalls in the girls bathroom... and yeah he asked me out and stuff but the next day when it was time to leave (it was a saturday cuz it was only a weekend thing) he like didnt speak to me at all or anything and broke up with me saying his mom said we lived to close (it was a text) and when i im him he doesnt respond. i have come to find out that when he dated one of my other best friend a rumor went around that he went out with her just to makeout with her so im not sure about the whole thing. do you think he used me or he really did liked me at the time. what do u think was going on serious answers please... haha maybe you guys could explain
2006-11-08 13:38:55 · 13 answers · asked by Amanda C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let's see...you said he broke up with you for a very lame reason that you lived too close...he didn't even bother to speak with you at the end of your retreat (not even to say goodbye?)...and he didn't even respond to your IM when he could have easily done so had he been the slightest interested...and made out with you in a shower stall... sure sounds like he's just into a quick and easy make-out session but definitely not into you at all. With all these obvious and self-evident reasons, do you really to wonder if he was a fake? Sounds like a jerk. Wonder no more and move on sweetie.
2006-11-08 13:41:08 · answer #1 · answered by TY 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm gonna vote....fake!
And wait. Did you say he dated one of your best friends? I don't know about you, but dating your friends' ex always creates super DRAMA. Don't get involved with this guy, it doesn't sound like he respects you or the girls he's been with. It's better to step away from this now before you get in deeper.
Wow! Retreats now-a-days are a lot different than when I went. I remember doing a bunch of spiritual activities, but nothing as intense as what you did!!
2006-11-08 21:46:47 · answer #2 · answered by s2bx04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, i dont know why every one does that stuff at a church retreat(it was catholic camp for me), but anyways, when you say using you, it sounds like you didnt get anything, but you got to make out with a guy in the shower, i dont think he loves you or ever did, but dont feel like **** about it, just view it as fun at the time, and nothing more, i was the guy in that situation once and i told the girl i loved her, but it was just to set the mood, and i enjoyed doing it, it was really fun at the time and i felt a strong connection, just think of it as something really hot
2006-11-08 21:52:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Sweetie,
Truth be told, He only said what he said to get sex! boys that age,(and many men) just want a piece of ***! They will say anything, use you, then drop you! Sorry to say sweetie, but this is a lesson most girls learn the hard way! I hope you and he had protection!!!!!! That being said, You will be fine, just do not let your guard back down! Give yourself a chance to grow up, and find yourself, only then will you be ready to know what true love really is! GOOD LUCK!!!!!!
2006-11-08 21:55:40 · answer #4 · answered by Lilac_lady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys who make out with girls in shower stalls or toilets generally don't have strong feelings of love. Sounds like he likes making out with as many girls as he can.
2006-11-08 21:45:54 · answer #5 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol, in a shower stall at a church retreat? Anyways, if you don't feel it, it must not be love.
2006-11-08 21:47:14 · answer #6 · answered by xxxcerealfordinnerxxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he just wanted to use you. If he really liked you then he wouldn't do that stuff to you. And if he really did make out with your friend then think of all the other girls he dd that to. He isn't worth thinking about until he changes if he does.
2006-11-08 21:42:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey...this guy is a fake 100%...the only feelings he has are located in his pants....which by the way is the location of his brain. I take it you are young and not familiar with the 3 F's that this worm has used on you. Educate yourself against boys trying to increase their brain power! Boys are _______...throw rocks at them!
2006-11-08 21:56:56 · answer #8 · answered by DvorC44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is a guy that is playing the field.... You will meet many more guys like that in life... I would just chalk this one up as experience and move on...
2006-11-08 21:46:58 · answer #9 · answered by Couple of Cents 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fake. He is juz playing wif u. Get over him. However mayb he has sum reasons for doing so which i tink the possibilty is less than 1%. this guy juz do nt noe his feelings. he's nt mature enuff =.=
2006-11-09 09:00:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋