my ex was a ***** and I ended up cheating on him with another ex.He never found out but I did break up with him on account of how arrogant and selfish he is.He has had a new girlfriend for about four months and she is really sweet.The problem is he keeps sending me messages saying he wants to sleep with me and that he loves me ect.I tell him to stop,I have blocked him and he still continues.Should I tell him that I cheated on him when we were together or should I tell his girlfriend that he is trying to get with me?
2006-11-08 13:37:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hello again, I think you should tell his girl friend, that way she'll get upset with him and he shouldn't bother you anymore. message me on the 360 thing, if you wish.
2006-11-09 16:37:15 · answer #1 · answered by Sentinel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The key word here is EX. as in past, no longer exists. Just forget this guy and have his emails go directly to the trash via a filter.
I wouldn't bother getting involved at any level with him. This will only show him that he has hit some nerve in you.
A restraining order is pretty effective at getting someone from harassing you.
peace
2006-11-08 13:42:24 · answer #2 · answered by easinclair 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are smart, you'll just avoid the situation. If he contacts you either erase the message or hang up on him. As long as you continue to accept his messages, he'll continue.
Guys like the idea of being able to sleep with more than one chick. It makes him feel macho. You are giving him the hope that his fantasy will come true. Don't give him hope, just ignore him and eventually he'll go away.
Don't invest in him emotionally any more.
2006-11-08 13:43:08 · answer #3 · answered by txguy8800 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You tell that scumbag to admire a woman and to recommendations his very own business enterprise. there's a reason as to why he's your ex, by using fact he's no longer area of your existence anymore! it is all interior the previous and dealt with so why does it count? No ask your self you dumped him.
2016-12-28 16:37:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell his girlfriend. he is being a horrible boyfriend to BOTH girls. the reason you did sleep with someone else was because HE was being a *****. don't let this get in your way. push on with life.
good luck!!!!!
2006-11-08 13:40:17 · answer #5 · answered by chaos causer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow what a soap opera you are living. Seems like world peace isn't as important after reading this.
2006-11-08 13:41:02 · answer #6 · answered by Illyria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't stoop to that level. just ignore him and sooner or later he'll get the hint. if you have to, get another guy to answer the phone when he calls so that he'll think you have a bf...good luck
2006-11-08 13:41:42 · answer #7 · answered by *KiM* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should leave it alone and change your cell number or email address. I wouldn't tell him or her anything. He's her problem now!
2006-11-08 13:40:02 · answer #8 · answered by Jen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever give it up that you cheated on him...if he aggravates you so bad now, you don't want him to have that ammuntion. I would just tell him that I was going to tell her if he called again...and if he does....DO !!!!
2006-11-08 13:41:14 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normally I would say just leave everyone alone to do their own thing, but in this case, I would let his g/f know.
2006-11-08 13:40:30 · answer #10 · answered by Steph L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋