He sleeps in my lap more than once.. and all of the times he was the one that came to me ..
Guys? why would you sleep on a girl's lap ..
in front of family and even friends.. ?
is it friends feelings? sister feelings? mother feelings? what type of feelings would you have for this girl who youhave told her yourself.. "i think you are a keeper and if I was to marry you I know for sure I wouldnt have any problems with you"
a girl that you ve told her you dont want any relationship with .. because you had just had a broken heart...however you call her all the time to hang out.. and its not her the one that looks for you .. but YOU who looks for her?
i am talking about a 22 year old guy and an 18 year old girl ..
the girl seems to listen to him all the time and she can tell he likes her attention ...
2006-11-08 13:33:18 · 8 answers · asked by Dr. Truth 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds to me like this girl is trying to be a Savior to this guy. He realizes that she can not only be trusted but is reliable to have a lap to sleep on when it is needed. Try to discuss this over with the guy and see if you both can communicate openly and honestly what if anything is happening regarding a possible relationship. What if this 18 year old girl was to find herself a boyfriend who didn't like the idea of another guy sleeping on her lap? Good luck in trying to sort this out and don't allow yourself to be played like a fiddle if all you are doing is acting as a surrogate mother to this guy.
2006-11-08 13:39:48 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its more of a control thing, the guy is 22 and shes 18. Hes got a little exp. over her and she kind of wishes she was or thinks shes just as mature. I personally dated a girl who was 19 when i was 22 and it did not last. It was just sex and a good time. Maybe the guy is just insecure about himself and is messing with this girls head. I personally wouldnt advise an 18year old girl to date a 22 year old guy...she may think she has the maturity of a 22 year old but shes quite naive. It sounds like hes messin wit her feelings...thats messed up
2006-11-08 13:40:34 · answer #2 · answered by okinaps319 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be all of the above. It sounds as if he might be telling the truth about the broken heart, go slow give it time. Just don't jump in feet first. He could very well just be afraid of getting hurt again.
2006-11-08 13:40:23 · answer #3 · answered by hrwwtp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Likes her and is a flirting. She is responding by letting him.
There's nothing more endearing at times. One day he's going to open his eyes and they are going to look into each other's eyes and ZAP it happens.
2006-11-08 13:36:50 · answer #4 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He wants you to stick around take care of his needs but he wants no committement
2006-11-08 13:57:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
.......naaahhhh!.....i would rather sleep in a bedroom, or my van or something.......
2006-11-08 13:54:34 · answer #6 · answered by peanut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would like it.
2006-11-08 13:47:57 · answer #7 · answered by Redneck Midget 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nice....................
2006-11-08 13:53:07 · answer #8 · answered by pierre m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋