hurt you emotionally..but isnt an ex or a boyfriend, just a friend..who doesnt want to be in a relationship with you because he lives in a different country?
2006-11-08 13:30:18 · 14 answers · asked by happybeanstalk 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Appreciate his honesty and enjoy this friendship.
2006-11-08 13:45:08 · answer #1 · answered by Bethany 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never let the past to hold you back from enjoying a full life. What have you got to lose, except a heavy burden? Forgiveness is usually the key to moving forward, which is why it's on the path to gaining insight. When you forgive yourself, and those who have hurt you, you are able to release negative patterns that visit you over and over again. More importantly, you will finally sever the control that a memory of another person has over you. Stay in the present, affirm the good that has been a result of a bad situation, and love your authentic self even more than you did yesterday!
2006-11-08 21:38:03 · answer #2 · answered by yokrem 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on if you like the guy. If you are great friends then nothing should come between you, not even the biggest of fights. My best friend hurt me badly and he didn't even apologize. I went to him and told him he had hurt me and he didn't even realize it. He actually lives in another state than I do but I forgave him because we have been friends for way too long. I wasn't about to let a fight come between us. If you are good friends this will pass. If you like him then the hurt might be different but trust me friends are way better than boyfriends. They are the people that are there before and after every single guy throughout your life no matter what you do. I hope this helps.
2006-11-08 21:35:53 · answer #3 · answered by Julie D 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you say he's not a boyfriend then say because he lives too far away. he hurt you though you're not his? That's easy for me. He's there you're not. Let it go. He's controling you and he isn't even around you. He's too much. I'd let him know what he did to hurt me and I'd tell him I want an apology and i'd also tell him that he's a real a** for treating you like that. i don't know what he did but it must have only been words and they can only hurt if you allow them to. You will never control him but you can and must control the way you react to him....do it. Give him a boot and move on to other friends. Who needs a long distance hurtful relationship? You can't be that desperate. Even if you are I'd find someone nicer to talk to. good luck. Get strong. You are woman let us hear you roar!
2006-11-08 21:37:51 · answer #4 · answered by MISS-MARY 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the type of hurt you're referring to. Were your feelings hurt over an unintentional oversight if some sort or was the hurt something deliberate and malicious in nature? Friends will never 'hurt' you for no reason. There is some 'tough love' hurt that has to happen sometimes for your good but as mad as you may get (in that case) you know deep down that they are right and they mean you no true harm. To do something cruel and uncalled for is another story. In that case, he isn't your friend so there is no need to force something that currently doesn't exist.
2006-11-08 21:38:36 · answer #5 · answered by ShayButta 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well it is always hard to get past being hurt by a male. If you guys were such good friends and so close before this happened then you can make it through this i am sure. Plus it should not be that big of a problem if he lives a whole different country if it is that hard for you try to talk to him about how you feel about all of this i am sure he will i understand and if not he is not worth it.
2006-11-08 21:37:47 · answer #6 · answered by cheerbabe104 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would take a break from talking to him for a while. Think things over. Get your mind off of it. Then talk to him about it, and tell him how you feel. If he doesnt care or doesnt try to understand, then he isnt your friend.
2006-11-08 21:32:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just keep cool the connection, and cooler, and much cooler until died in natural way. To not have problem - just give up - change telephone/email address you are free from any memories.
2006-11-08 21:36:35 · answer #8 · answered by Toto 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to be friends with someone who hurt you? That isn't how friends treat one another...
2006-11-08 21:31:52 · answer #9 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i had that problem too you just have to forgive them and it mite take time but if you want to be friends with this person you have to
2006-11-08 21:35:18 · answer #10 · answered by cynsational 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋