I am going out with this guy. We really like eachother and everything is going well. On the other hand, my nextdoor neighbor, best friend, and friends with the guy i am going out with found out that i was going out with his friend, he got really angry with me, and started to try get involved. He made it and is making my like misery. I think hes jelous but i am not sure... hes expressed liking me but i explained to him i dont like him in that way at all. He's made the problem so much worse i am thinking just to break up with my boyfriend so my best friend will get off my back. What should i do?
2006-11-08 13:28:27 · 5 answers · asked by Molly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The thing is though he is like my best friend, and i have known him longer than my boyfriend, and we are (well were) so close...
2006-11-08 13:33:27 · update #1
molly, don't break upwith "turner". that's just what "rASS" wants you to do. i am her for you so don't worry about talking to him about it any more. if he is making things worse for you then you probably shoulden't tell him this stuff anymore. i will talk to rASS and turner if you would like me to and see what the problem is, that is only i you want me to though.
2006-11-08 13:55:45 · answer #1 · answered by Plague92 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
turn to him, say i'm going out with your friend whether you like it or not. i like him and i'm NOT going to feel the same way about you. You're just my next door neighbor, nothing else. i'm not going to break up with him, so deal!
now that i read your details, i think that you should invite him over, tell him nicely how you feel. you guys can still be friends, but if he was a REAL friend, he would'nt do that. the first rule of being a true friend is to NEVER get involved witih the other's business. you have that right. he's your best friend and he should know better, even if he is in love with you. maybe he is, but that doesn't say that he should medal around with your love life. he will have to back off and leave you alone, or else he's not a good friend.
this guy is making you miserable. you like the guy you're dating. cut that neighbor out of your life and your life is a fairy tale. don't let him get in your way of that happening. make sure that he doesn't wreak what you have with your boyfriend
he probably IS jealous, but he does NOT have the right to break you to up. maybe he thinks that you'll see that he really likes you, but that does not give him the permission to piss you off. you should't have to suffer and you need to tell him.
good luck!
2006-11-08 21:33:58 · answer #2 · answered by chaos causer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't break up with yoour boyfriend... Just tell him to leave you alone... If he does'nt call the cops fro harrassment ... JUST DON'T BREAK UP WiTH HiM!!!
2006-11-08 21:30:41 · answer #3 · answered by kadelgiacco 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't give him the satifaction of breaking you two up!
2006-11-08 21:30:14 · answer #4 · answered by pink_panther 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not give him the satifaction of breaking you two up!!!
2006-11-08 21:32:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋