OK, i used to live in mississippi and i had these 2 (specific) enemies named Lauren and Will. Lauren started a rumor that i was gay (which i'm not.) because I was friends with her friends, and she couldn't put up with that. Then she said, 'oo all your friends are girls.' and i said, 'so what?' then she said 'that makes you gay.' and i said, '*****, most of your friends are girls, and the same thing goes for almost every girl in this solar system.' then, she wouldn't stop spreading the goddamn rumor.
on to will. he used to be one of my best friends. Then, he started lying to me out of the middle of nowhere, and then he started going with lauren and spreading the rumor too! I was really pissed.
How do i move on? i've moved away from all that 5 months now, and all that hatred is still in me. What should i do?
~*~Be SeRiOuS pLeAsE~*~
2006-11-08 13:25:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
(BTW, i don't have a problem if someone is gay. I'm just sayin' that it kind of offends me because i am not one.)
2006-11-09 09:10:51 · update #1
Try writing your emotions on a piece of paper then burning it. It will help to resolve the problem a bit. Realize that kids are mean and that they will and do say awful stuff to others that is hurtful. You have relocated so find some new pals that you feel comfortable with and believe me when I tell you that in time you will not only forget about how your currently feeling but will also laugh about it some day. Good luck and don't communicate with either party as it will only upset you.
2006-11-08 13:30:23 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have moved away then dont worry about it just think by moving you already payed them back now they cant torment anyone and they will eventualy start knocking eachother with rumors . also make other friends true friends i am sure that after that experience you know what a bad friend is and can see the signs that they are @-holes and then ditch them and get better friends. hope all works out for you and try not to dwell on the past it only deprives you of the present and makes you miss the things that you could be looking forward to in the future and when u get out of college and a nice job a very few amount of people will still be that way not to make you depressed but just dont let it bother you ,cause everyone that they tell will eventualy realize that Lauren and Will are completly immature and that you were the better person by not letting it bother you hope this helps and good luck w/ your new life away from those two losers : )
2006-11-08 13:36:31 · answer #2 · answered by unknownmagician 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all what you think is the most important thing. She sounds like a real loser. You are better then that, hold your head up and put it behind you. The best revenge is to live your life and feel good. And even if someone was gay, so what, what is wrong with that anyway? People are people and should all be treated with respect. Obviously, this girl is too immature to know that, she will eventually grow up. Forget it! Or at least don't let it waste any of your time, you I am sure have better things to do. Lastly, write a letter and get all your feelings out on paper, it helps, then throw it away or burn it or whatever.
2006-11-08 13:32:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just let it go, peace of mind will come if you concentrate on what you think of yourself and what you do about your life than hearing stupid rumors.
BTW, Revenge is not something that will give you long-term stability or peace of mind, but man... it feels good. You can start a rumor back on your old town that these 2 creeps are a S&M couple and maybe post some pics in myspace with their names on... but I do not recommend it. Any plan of this sort will probably backfire.
2006-11-08 13:51:40 · answer #4 · answered by Historygeek 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are in a new place, take the time to meet new ppl and make new friends. The problem is that you have too much time in your hands to be thinking and worrying about what they say or do. If you show that you don't care, they will stop and if they don't stop at some point ppl wont care and they will look like the idiots that they are.
2006-11-08 13:31:55 · answer #5 · answered by ttepinzon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only limits to our realization of tomorrow will be our doubts of today. Continuing to have those feeling are preventing you from moving on with your life. The sooner you put it all behind you ,including the hatered the easier it will be to be happy and go on with your life.****Besides Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it. Best wishes , just move on.
2006-11-08 13:37:42 · answer #6 · answered by mssgtmidnight 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
suicide will end your problems
----can't wait to see you on the news
2006-11-08 13:31:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
just do it
2006-11-08 13:27:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋