Is it hard for you to say "I love you" -I know he does .. but its like we are both scared to say it first..lol I know this is a stupid question.. but I need to have a mans point of view... TY
2006-11-08 13:18:51 · 9 answers · asked by softball13sgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For the smart asses ... yes I'm old enough I was once married for 9 years and I'm asking because we were together last year for a while and we said It to each other.. and he needed time and we took a break.. now a year later we have been dating for 6 months and I think it is because hes scared that I will not be ready this time??!!!
2006-11-08 13:31:03 · update #1
I think that it is pretty easy to say, but can be greatly overused. So consider it a good thing that he is being selective with his words. Plus with todays society being stupid and scared of the words "I love you", he's probably afraid that he'll scare you off and never see you again. So he probably does love you, but is afraid to say it in fear that he'll lose you and that he doesn't want those words to be overused or underestimated.
2006-11-08 13:22:38 · answer #1 · answered by Sam-Wise 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off, I would wonder if your old enough to understand the REAL Meaning of LOVE,,,, But yea,, a guy fears rejection from a woman,, if a guy uses the L word then that makes him feel like he is opening himself up to get shot down AGAIN,,, and he fears the female may not feel the same therefore she will tell him to hit the road cuz she may think hes moving to fast,
2006-11-08 13:24:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man should NOT say that to a woman in a romantic way, nor should you have anything to do with such a man who does.
It's not only a lie, but it's sick, totally sick and nothing but sick. Try to get a clue and understand this.
2006-11-08 13:22:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not hard, no. What U need to remember is "once stung, twice shy". If he's been hurt before it'll probably take some time before he's ready.
2006-11-08 13:23:13 · answer #4 · answered by utuseclocal483 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is strong word man...good luck
2006-11-08 13:23:08 · answer #5 · answered by okinaps319 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he's ready he'll say it. You should probably give it some time.
2006-11-08 13:21:13 · answer #6 · answered by Brandon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I tell someone i love them and i mean it. its pretty easy for me to say it but i only had one gf and she broke my heart.
2006-11-08 13:25:10 · answer #7 · answered by sarge7826 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say it! guys will say it back! it is good to love!
2006-11-08 13:21:55 · answer #8 · answered by savgbst 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep its hard
2006-11-08 13:21:46 · answer #9 · answered by Juan M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋