Well me and my boyfriend been together for 6 months now and he act like he dont wont to be with me on the phone like he treat me like **** on the phone. when we in person it's all good we act as if we a good couple like we doing good. Also he say he dont care bout alot of issue in our relationship but say he's love me. This started ever since i moved and he live in Detroit and I live in Southfield and thats not that far from each other so can someone tell me something!
2006-11-08 12:40:09 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-11-08 12:41:42 · answer #1 · answered by Firefighting Hero 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't mean to burst your bubble but if he's only acting like that when you talk on the phone, that's a bad sign that there could possible be another girl there when you call and he's doing that to get you off the phone quick. I would look into that since you said guys live in 2 different cities. Don't be a fool and get played, look into the situation seriously. Ask him straight out if he is seeing someone else and the next time your at his place nonchalantly check for signs of another girls presence. Good luck to you.
2006-11-08 20:43:39 · answer #2 · answered by Simmy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever tried to talk to him and tell him how you feel and listen to see how he feels about the relationship. If so and he still act like he does not care then give him a little break stop call him as often as before and also stop going out with him at a drop of a hat. Old time people use to say distance make the relationship sweeter, so try those things then tell me what did he do.
2006-11-08 20:44:06 · answer #3 · answered by breast 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I will definitely tell you that if it doesn't feel good to you, please, please, leave. Too many women today settle for too less. If this relationship is not fulfilling you in every way, you have to move on. Life is so short, and I know when you are young you think you are indestructible, well you are not. You have one life to live, please live it to the best you and your relationships can be. I have lived my life, not to the best I might add, that's why I tell you, look for the best, if you have not found it yet, please keep searching. Oh my God, I have been there many times, that's why I say, when you know it's right, not by some ridiculous feeling, but he has to treat you like you are the only one, the best in this world, only then do you know he really loves you. Will he give up a sports event to take you somewhere, will he treat so well like there is no tomorrow, will he put you first, if you can't say yes to these questions, please move on. There is a man out there who will truly make you feel like a woman.
2006-11-08 20:57:39 · answer #4 · answered by june clever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he may have some issues. You should try to talk to him and tell him your concerns. Tell him it bothers you the way he is talking to you on the phone and stuff, but when you are alone, things are great. Find out if he is upset about something and see if you can help. Do not let him continue the times when he treats you bad, because then he will think he can always do that. Of course, everyone will have bad days, but you need to find out what is going on. Good Luck!
2006-11-08 20:45:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that actions and words in a relationship need to match up with each other, otherwise there is something wrong. It sounds like your boyfriend either is confused about what he wants or is just using you. In either case, he is not the one for you. Find a man who will treat you with love and respect all the time. Good luck!
2006-11-08 20:44:55 · answer #6 · answered by applecider 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he takes advantage of you because you let him, but in person he likes to show off like he has the best. Set him straight on how you feel, and tell him to treat you with respect or you will find someone that will. Take care and use the advice everyone has to offer on here, I know i do.
2006-11-08 20:44:28 · answer #7 · answered by michael a 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i meet this type of people before... what i suggest was tell him first whats was ur feeling as the other says..if he never care about it, then i just can says that it was usless for you to act like an ant in the hot pot... cause ur relationship will not improve at all and will be broke up soon..this was what i passed before.. a relationship that unsecured will makes anyone feel hopeless.. think about wehther you still can continue in this situation or not? if not, just go away...
2006-11-08 20:58:24 · answer #8 · answered by joslyn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he is pretending in this relationship.you guys are having long distance realtionship.think about it.he treats you,like a dirt when you are away fro him.does it not hint you that he is having another companion when you are not around? i'm not trying to be negative or giving you reasons to break up with him.i'm just asking you to be more sensitive about this issue.find out what going on.keep away from him, and see how often he approaches you, in a day..maybe he would reveal few things you never expected to?
2006-11-08 20:48:26 · answer #9 · answered by chandni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes people don't want to attend phone call just because of less minutes of their wireless service, no matter whoever is calling. This might be the case with your bf also. Try calling him on his free TIME.
2006-11-08 20:44:20 · answer #10 · answered by DTS 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋