Ok, so what if a guy is crushing on a girl but is to shy or afraid of rejection and doesnt wanna make a move incase he does something wrong what should he do?
2006-11-08 12:32:23 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, so what if a guy is crushing on a girl but is to shy or afraid of rejection and doesnt wanna make a move incase he does something wrong what should he do?
plus how would he get her on her own to ask her?
2006-11-08 12:39:39 · update #1
Ask her to hangotu. not a date but as friends. See how things go. Then maybe she will warm up more and you will get more comfortable with her. Then if you get the courage ask her on a date.
2006-11-08 12:38:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes you have to take the risk but you MUST do it respectfully. treat her like a lady and you can NEVER go wrong! even if she doesn't ACT like a lady! trust me she WILL appreciate it! but first you have to determine if she is crushworthy. I need to put up the FAQs because I give the SAME advice ALL The time. Ok, here we go AGAIN! DOES she listen to her PARENTS and authority? How serious is she about her faith, if she is religious? how is her outlook on life? is she negative? does she have a job? or at least help out around the house? does she focus on schoolwork (if she is a teenager) in other words, is she lazy? is she honest? is she trustworthy? how bout compassionate? is she patient? does she forgive easily? is she bossy? these are just a FEW things to consider. I'm sure you can find a FEW more... as for flirting, some girls are REALLY clueless when guys flirt. most aren't but you get the rare girl that just can't pick up the signal for soem reason so you might actually have to be direct if the subtle approach doesn't work. if you decide to flirst. start very lightly and see if she's one of those and keep going stronger until she clues in until it's fairly obvious. then she's either not interested or clueless.
2006-11-08 12:43:05 · answer #2 · answered by leeanndemon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rejection is a part of life. In order for you to be able to cope with it your going to have to face it at some point. The sooner the better. When it happens your gonna be like ok thats it. Don't get me wrong rejection will sting you like a mutha. After it's over your gonna feel down and out but picking yourself back up won't be a problem. Then you will know that it won't kill you but make you stronger. If the lady of your dreams isn't interest moving on will be a piece of cake. Then you have thousands of upon thousands of ladies in the world to woo under you spell. Relax when your ready to approach her just be you.
2006-11-08 12:52:29 · answer #3 · answered by giya_98 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make the move!! I would love it if a guy approached me... as long as he isn't married, thinks I'm a prostitute, or objectifies me for being a woman. If your really into the girl for more than just her looks, approach her by looking into her eyes and starting up a real conversation about something interesting, and not small talk... don't talk about the weather! Shy guys are soooo cute and appealing! Some girls love breaking them out of their shell! If your too shy to talk, throw some smiles her way.
2006-11-08 12:38:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. The worst she can say is no. If she does say no then trust me there are plenty of other fish in the sea. But, if you make the first move, then at least you won't be wondering all your life, if only you had asked her would she say yes. Just make sure that you have an other girl in mind i case things don't work out, so u won't look bad. But, hopefully she will say yes and youuur dreams, and maybe her, dreams wil come true too. Hey, ya never know, she might secretly like u too.
2006-11-08 12:36:46 · answer #5 · answered by Ali 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guy, ask her out!!!!! don't be afraid of rejection because what is the worst thing that'll ever happen?!? you won't go out with her, so! there are plenty of other fish in the sea. Plus, there are only two ways the answer could result in: 1. you having the girl you really like. or 2. you not having a girlfriend. which doesn't matter! Go for it bud. who knows? she may like you!
2006-11-08 12:37:12 · answer #6 · answered by B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rejection is a part of life. If she's a nice girl, and she isn't interested, she'll let you down gently. If she embarrasses you, she isn't the one for you.
If she likes you, it's all good.
Ask her to go somewhere or do some activity that doesn't place too much pressure on her or make her feel awkward.
2006-11-08 12:41:27 · answer #7 · answered by Nat R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are good friends with one of her friends, ask them to ask her how she feels about you without giving away your feelings, if she's into it then go for it and dont be shy.. if she's not into it then move on to another girl who is interested. Also if you dont have a friend whose close wtih her, just go for it. you dont wanna regret not going for it or always wondering what could of happened. if you get rejected its not the end of the world, just move on to another girl that is interested
2006-11-08 12:35:20 · answer #8 · answered by Kate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alrit~ This guy is doing exactly this to me! I like him, but he's too shy! Maybe that girl really wants you to tell her how you feel! Don't worry about something that you did wrong...we're human and we ALL make mistakes! Just chill, and tell! + Life's too short to be beating around the bush
Good Luck~
2006-11-08 12:35:18 · answer #9 · answered by HAPPY <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't make your move because you're afraid of rejection ,then you will have already missed your opportunity
2006-11-08 12:35:16 · answer #10 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋