soooooo little question here?

Question

my ex and i broke up and he went out with someone else. i was upset about it but tried to keep myself busy from thinking about him. two and a half months go by and he breaks up with her. surprise surprise. now he is interested in me again. i hung out at my friends house with him, his friend, my friend and my other friend. my ex kissed me and i let him because i still have feelings for him. i really do like him. but how do i know if hes using me as some sort of a rebound action? can a guy really like a girl so fast like 3 days after he just broke up with a different one? i dont really know what to think about him. he says he likes me but ahh who really knows anymore...so any advice for this little situation?

well technically it wasnt even breaking up. he just went out with some other girl and then broke up with her. i hung out with him because my friend said he was looking forward to it all night and i didnt want to cancel on him and just to hear that made me feel good. he kept on tickeling me the whole night. and it was just confusing. i wish i knew what he was thinking right now......

Answer 1

Where a person's feelings are concerned it is never a little situation. Feelings can consume us all. The only thing that we have on our side is the ability to think logically, but only if you are willing. You need to sit down quietly and really give this situation a good re-think. No-one knows what is going on in his head, but it is my guess he is not very confident at all and cant stand the thought of being on his own and I believe you are only a stepping stone to the next girl he likes the look of. Yes, you have feelings for him, but does that mean your feelings for him are more than the feelings you have for yourself. If you are having doubts now, let me assure you they will only get worse and you will be waiting and wondering when he is going to leave you for someone else.

Its very simple, he doesnt deserve you. You are better than this, simply because you are questioning his motives.....that tells me your a pretty smart cookie. Your heart wants him to love you but your head is telling you that its not right, and I think your head is the one you should be taking notice of.

You will meet a guy who you will fall madly in love with one day and he is going to love you the same. You will have no doubts, you will just know that this guy is the right one. I think you know your ex should stay your ex, and he really is not the right one. Let him know you are no-body's second choice. Dont settle for second best...go for the very best and dont accept any crumbs.

Answer 2

Mmmm, hung on a sec! U mean broke up, he started going out wif some one else and let u know about it and after things not working out btn them, he is back telling u how much he likes u and next time he is gonna tell u that he loves u?? And u are buying that crap??? He is just using for u his pleasure and after a while is gonna ditch u again for some one else (sorry, my opinion).

Answer 3

to be honest with you i would not bother with this guy. i think that if he really liked you the two of you would not have broke up in the first place. he had his chance to have a relationship with you, and chose not to take it, and now that he has know one he wants you back, what until he sees someone else he wants. don't fall for it, move on. find someone that wants to be with you all the time not some of the time.

Answer 4

at the start whats so perplexing approximately that. for sure lady "x" is inspired via what lady "y" thinks of you. Secondly according to risk you purely think of she's interested in you considering you prefer her to have an interest. conversing from a woman's perspective, i does no longer want a boy to make a flow on me understanding that I also have a boyfriend, according to risk in case you tried purely being acquaintances you are able to easily be sure if she does such as you or no longer. too lots stress on a woman can stress her to make some genuine coronary heart breaking judgements, certainly one of that are to end your friendship. in case you like her as you're saying you do you provide her time to expound on the concern and make a determination that could earnings you the two.

Answer 5

Set him up bring one of your HOT friends over have her to talk to your bf and than say you have to use the restroom well have your friend take him into the bedroom and have her to talk to him than when it is the right time have your friend to make a move on this guy if he turns her down wait a little longer than he will adventurely he will say yes than when they are getting ready to kiss than you walk in than you have like a cup of water of coffee or a soda can well you drop it than say you was using me wasn't you all because you wanted my friend you are such a loser befor this happens kiss him one last time

Answer 6

Could be he realized he made a mistake or he could just be horny. I broke up with my current wife 3 times from 1982 -1986 and married her in 1987 So, Go figure?

Answer 7

hmmm can't really answer without knowing why you guys broke up in the first place. He might've gone out with the other girl just to get your attention or get you back- I dunno. Need more details but wait a while and see how things go. If he seems more persistent and serious about you then maybe give it a second chance.

Answer 8

Move on. You're relationship didn't work for a reason, why tread in the same old pond with the same fish, when you can swim upstream and end up in a sea...

Answer 9

He doesn't know what he wants and is using you as a "safety net" don't go back out with him even if you like him. Tell him you deserve more respect than that and you aren't willing to settle.

Answer 10

There are so many paths to take, so why go down one you've been down before, especially as it didn't lead anywhere? He's being a jerk, tell him to take a hike!