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i fell like giving up and ending my life i always do dumd things everybody makes fun of my weight sometimes i think it is my fault the way i look i can run 2 miles a day and night i work out and im not the best looking is there anybody out there can give me some help

Answer 1

Yes. First, you need to increase your intelligence. The best way to do that is by asking questions, so you're off to a good start! Ask everyone you meet something, anything. You will start out sounding like a complete idiot, but eventually, you'll have enough answers to start answering other people's questions.

Secondly, you need a significant other. Go online. There are some great dating websites out there. Find out what the significant other that you'd be most interested in looks for in a guy, then begin taking steps to make yourself into that kind of guy.

Don't worry about your weight. If you take care of your mind first, the body will follow.

If you have a lot of trouble getting motivated, make a list of everyone you know and start interacting with them one at a time. Call them. If they live far away write them. Tell them about what you're up to and ask them what they're up to.

Don't complain!!!! DON'T EVER COMPLAIN!!!!

Remember, as bad as you may think you have it, there are millions of people all over the world whom have it WAY WORSE then you could possibly imagine. You have access to a computer (obviously). You have the free time to run and work out. Trust me, nobody cares about looks later in life. Get your head screwed on straight and then worry about looks.

You can do it! I know you can! You've made the first most important step which is to realize that you need help- now follow my advice and the advice of others who've replied to you and make a change for the better. Every life is sacred, but especially yours. You already matter to everyone whose responded to you. Start mattering to yourself!

Answer 2

i do believe there is a suicide hotline that you can call. Plus i am sure you can find help on the web. But better yet why do u really want to kill yourself? It's not the weight or the dumb things you say... How old are you? highschool? Well highschools a pain and everyone has low self esteem... You are no different then anyone else is highschool. Everyone is going throgh a uncomfortable time trying to figure out where they fit in...Wait until college you'll find a lot of ppl you feel comfortable with and you feel more like you belong... But don't let anyone get you down... And if you are having more serious problems maybe at school or home you need to talk to a counciler and they can get you the proper help... so don't worry everything works out you just have to see it through... plus what kind of ppl would we be if life was so easy :)

Answer 3

listen, i know that sometimes its difficult to feel strong and secure when there are so many cruel and insensitive people around you who take cheap shots and make fun of you... but from what you say, if you are willing to run 2 miles a day and work out at night then you seem like a person who is not ready to give up. All that effort means "life" means something, doesn't it?

Life can be beautiful with the right people -- the one's who will be accepting and loving no matter what you look like. Please don't despair; if you think you want to lose weight - then you will, all you have to do is put your mind to it. One little step at a time: a good 15 minute walk a day; running or jogging; play a sport; if you aren't the sports type, find some exercises you can do at home. If you aren't pleased with the way you look, its so easy to find tips on how to better groom yourself and take care of your appearance: take care of your skin, clean it daily, moisturize it, that way it will always shine and look healthy and clean; make sure your eyebrows are groomed and shaped nicely (you can do this easily with tweezers in front of a mirror at home); wear colors that accentuate at least one feature on your face (colors that will highlight your eyes, or your hair)...

Take care of your hair, condition it regularly; try a few different ideas to see what frames your face the best. If you are more plump on the top (above the waist) wear clothes that will accentuate your slimmer part (below the waist). Wear looser shirts on top --- the kind that frame your shoulders and chest (if you're a girl) but loose around the mid-section. NEVER wear horizontal stripes on top because they give the illusion that you are broader than what you really are.

If you are heavier on the bottom than you are on the top, make sure you don't wear too tight clothing on the top, because you will be emphasizing the heaviness on the bottom. Rather, wear shirts (or blouses or jackets) that give the eye a vertical line to follow (looking vertically makes something appear slimmer because it gives the illusion of being taller and spread out vertically).

There are so many things you can do. As for saying you always do dumb things --- honey, its about time you stopped living a self-fulfilling prophecy --- what this means is, if enough people tell you you're dumb, you start beleiving them..... but the sad truth is, you only really become dumb when you accept that this is true of you.

Every person has virtues and vices --- every person has flaws and good characteristics.... the point is, this is your life, and it is precious, and it is the only one you've got, and it would be a heck of a shame to throw it all away for some idiot people who need to be mean to others in order to feel important. You have so many other beautiful things you could do with your life than to give such people the satisfaction of getting you down. I know you can do it if you put your mind to it. All you have to do is want it enough.

Please take care.

Answer 4

Try to make it through just one more hour at a time, don't think about tomorrow yet - just do what you can to get through each hour.
It isn't your fault the way you look, but you are trying to do something about it - so good for you. You can only do the best with what you're given, and it seems like you are really trying and thats great.
Don't give up on life - there are wonderful people out there, I ppromise! You need to get away from the people who are making fun of you - if its at work, then change jobs, if it's school, change schools - just do what is takes to get yourself somewhere where you can be happier. Foget everyone elses BS and make yourself happy by doing things you like, being places where you can be happy - forget the other *******.

Answer 5

Sometimes I Feel The Same But Just Ignore Them, And Dont Eat To Many Foods With Lots Of Fat It Makes You Gain Weight Then Lose Weight.Exersice Helps To But To Much May Hurt Your Body Or Give You Pain,Looks Arnt Everything You Know,There Are People Who Care About Each Other So Much That They Dont Care How They Look On Your OutSide But Your Inside.Well Hope This Helps!!Good Luck!

Answer 6

I know just how you feel, but cheer up! Nothing is bad enough to take you own life over. Especially the way you think you look and being over weight! Just as beauty is only skin deep, so is any other way people look!

I don't know for sure but I think you must be under 18. Don't worry, if you keep trying to make yourself a better person, it will happen for you. One day you will look at yourself in the mirror and see that you have become more than you ever imagined!

Keep the faith!

Answer 7

There is nothing any1 could say on here to really help your situation becuase it is that bad. but that doesnt mean its unfixable. Talk to the most trustworthy family member, doesnt have to be family it could be friends whoever as long as u can trust them then its all good cos when you get it out in the open u do feel loads better about it. Talking about it online isnt as much of a experience cos ur still sittin at home by urself infront of a pc you understand?

Ok I have a lot of problems too, with family with friends ( not that i have many) with work its just a lot. What people tell me is that i need to tackle problems one at a time, dont think about all of them at once otherwise it gets too overwhelming and you will get really depressed over it. Focus on one issue at a time, you say ur fat? then go to the gym and start working out loads forget what ppl think of you so what? Geeks or nerds (watever u call them) get beaten up in school for being smart, they just carry on readin and wat happens? they end up owning a multi million pound business.

Working out helps the mind relax so do that, talk to ppl you can trust and blank out any1 whos not being nice to you. SORRY IV WRITTEN A LOT BUT I TRIED =)

Answer 8

Don't end your life It's not very effective. Those people making fun of you, just tell them to **** off. Ignore them . Hey looks aren't everything. Trust me. If you can run two miles a day you're doing better than me and I'm supposed to be "fit". Just step back and realizes what you can do that so many people cant do. Rub that in those peoples faces. Show them hoe great you are!

Answer 9

From my experience it is usually the person who is teasing and putting people down that have something wrong with them. Even if they are popular, they are feeling down about something themselves. And there is a reason they have picked you to put down, they feel inadequate to you for some reason. That is why they call it a put down, Hun, it is because the person or people that are doing it feel low themselves so they have to put you down in some way to bring them to their level. I know it is hard but this is how you should be looking at it. That when they say these things it should make you happy and you should say "THANKS, and give a big SMILE" because they are really giving you a compliment, in a passive agressive way but they are.
How old are you?

Answer 10

ok, so about the whole ending your life stuff... you need to go talk to someone asap-- such as a therapist, counselor, or doctor. they can get you help because you DON'T HAVE TO LIVE THIS WAY!!!

by the way, looks aren't everything. people make fun of other people because they are insecure. even the best looking people. surprising, but so very true.