ok, me and my ex-bf broke up about a month and a half ago and he continued to touch me as though we were going out. My friend(he had been slapping her and leaving marks) and i told someone and a complaint has been filed with the school district. He is a very violent person and i dont know if he will do something to me. please tell me what else to do
2006-11-08 12:12:24 · 13 answers · asked by Alison 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
domestic violence is on the rise, please be careful, if he has already put his hands on your friend, he may do it to you also, keep your doors locked and dont go anywhere alone, and make sure the same people you told for your friend know that he is a violent person and you are afraid for yourself, hopefully they can help you, and give you advice, if he is doing this kind of thing already he is only going to get worse, you and your friend may need to take out a restraining order on him, go online and look up domestic violence, or safe havens to see what steps you could take to prevent anything worse from happening. good luck
2006-11-08 12:23:41 · answer #1 · answered by walmartshopper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a restraining order from the police. Let your principal and teachers know so they are aware and will help keep an eye out. If you have any friends who are stronger, like football players, ask them to walk you to class and your car or bus, however you leave school. Take some self defence classes if you can and walk tall. If he thinks he can control you he will continue to try. Even if you aren't feeling brave, never let him see you as anything but. Preditors like victims, so don't be one.
2006-11-08 12:18:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do confront him, be sure to be in a public area with lots of people around. Make sure friends are around you as well, at least to keep an eye out in case anything might happen. Tell him as calmly and as nicely as you can that you feel a little uncomfortable with him touching you and that you need a little space. Maybe ask a trusted teacher to help you out as well, they often will have better advice. Best of luck to you!
2006-11-08 12:16:25 · answer #3 · answered by Pyrai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...he continued to touch me as though we were going out.
What? Just so you know, it is not normal for your boyfriend to touch you in any way you don't approve of...and if he hits you or any of your friends call the cops.
It may suck for him now, but, if he doesn't learn he'll end up a rapist or a wife beater...stay way from this dude, there is more there then you realize or could possiable deal with. Maybe he can get help and one day he'll thak you for turning him over to the cops!
2006-11-08 12:21:04 · answer #4 · answered by Doctor J. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good thing you told the district but if his *** gets near you again....tell him to **** off or go to the vp's office or back to the district....but never go out alone cause thats when he can easily get you....just continue to live your life and try not to think about him!!!...good luck!
2006-11-08 12:15:33 · answer #5 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get very far away from someone who u care about who is violent, bad things are bound to happen. make sure that they get help or someone is notified which seems to have already happened in this case
2006-11-08 12:14:36 · answer #6 · answered by Amanda R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Travel in a group and get a restraining order.
2006-11-08 12:14:35 · answer #7 · answered by bassmaim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a police report or just get someone to whip his ***!! I hate it when men hit women it just proves cowardness!
2006-11-08 12:15:21 · answer #8 · answered by Let's keep it real. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a restraining order. I have one on my ex because he used to beat the crap out of me.
2006-11-08 12:14:50 · answer #9 · answered by jessi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He won't stop as long as he continues being around you. Contact your nearest Women's Shelter for help.
2006-11-08 12:15:13 · answer #10 · answered by marpen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋