My oh so lovely boyfriend of quite a few months decided to break up with me out of the blue with no good reason the other day. He said it was because he had his whole life ahead of him and he wants to see whats out there. He said he still cares about me though and when I asked him if he really wanted to never have what had again he said no. I'm guessing he still likes me. He trys to be my friend and all that BS. Anyway, what I want to know is if you guys have any tips about how I can get him back. Or someway to make him jealous.. Either one would be great but I kinda would like the first one. =]]
2006-11-08 12:08:47 · 7 answers · asked by xokitty1024ox 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yr bf told you he wants to see what's out there. That is to say, he cares for his future more than you. But don't you understand, he is indirectly telling you that he wants his future, so he has to break up with you. That means, you have no part to play in his future or you are a hindrance to his future.
Are you like a supper glue that tie him down that he has no time to see what is out there? If not, there must be other reason why he wants to break up with you. Try to understand him and find out the reason behind his decision. He may be serious, unless he is trying to get certain attention from you.
I believe, there is no need to break up even if he is serious about his future. Both of you can work things out together for the good of both and does not hinder each other interest.
One more thing, never try to retaliate by making a guy jealous. Never act foolishly without understanding someone true motive. You don't know what is inside a guy mind. Try to understand him and work things out constructively for the good of both. Even if you are not ugly, he will still be attracted by your inner beauty.
2006-11-08 15:29:43 · answer #1 · answered by AH HA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go. If he wanted to be with you, he would be with you. Start acting like a stalker and you will definitely make sure that he won't come back. In addition, every other guy will see what a psycho you are and they won't want you either. Show some self respect and let it go. You can then move on with your life and find a guy that wants to be with you.
2006-11-08 20:12:32 · answer #2 · answered by LaRue0715 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't see the point why you would want to force someone to be with you after he had decided to leave you. There is no point in forcing your ex bf to be with you. You should just carry on with your life and I believe that you could find somebody better in future.
2006-11-08 21:41:48 · answer #3 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but why would anyone want to get back with someone who LEFT them FIRST...? Obviously he won't want you back if he "wants to see whats out there" When a man says that, he means he wants to see the other selection of girls....thats a man's way of saying he wants another girl...what a jerk he was....
2006-11-08 20:12:37 · answer #4 · answered by Ally C. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry to say this honey but you shouldnt do either.... you shouldnt even want him back. he broke up with you now move on. if he said he wants to see whats out there then let him. i just think your not the girl hes looking for. im not trying to be mean its just thats what it sounds like from what you sent me.
2006-11-08 20:12:24 · answer #5 · answered by courtney5839 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could get kicked out the players club 4 this but ima help u. he got what he wanted and it's time to move on but, *&%k 1of his boys and watch what happens.
2006-11-08 20:14:58 · answer #6 · answered by ifnotynotjuan113 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't want him back. He dumped YOU.
If you are smart, you will just move on.
2006-11-08 20:12:40 · answer #7 · answered by lilly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋