my ex -grilfriend and I broke up 5mths ago and one of my ex's ex-best friends and I are still good friends and my friend told me the other day that my ex was being a ***** behind her back al because she was friends with me and was there for ME the night my ex and I broke up and the break up wasnt even my fault my ex had cheated on me with another BOY and my ex thinks that my friend is taking my side when my friend thinks that what my ex did was wrong anyway, Is this fair
2006-11-08 12:04:43 · 5 answers · asked by Still blond but no longer single 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, its not fair, your friend is fair, she is not taking sides per say, she is standing up for what is right and supporting the person who was wronged. She chose what is right over "friendship", and I use that term lightly, because obviously your friend does not agree with "cheating" and doesnt want to be associated with "cheaters". Good on her, it takes guts to stand your ground regardless of what other people may say. Its your ex girlfriend who should feel ashamed of herself, and you know what, I reckon she is saying these negative things behind your friends back because she is jealous pure and simple. She knows she did the wrong thing, but doesnt like the fact that her "friend" supported you instead of her. You have a good solid friend in your ex's ex friend....lol.....she will be invaluable to you in the future.....she is very rare indeed. Loyalty and doing what is right regardless of what people think is a wonderful gift. Your friend has wonderful qualities and great strength. At least your friend can walk down the street with her head held high...I cant say the same about your ex girlfriend.
2006-11-08 12:22:51 · answer #1 · answered by rightio 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is difficult for the friend. she is right in thinking that was your ex-gf did was wrong, but she needs to let her friend know gently that the reason she is friends with you is not solely because of that. otherwise you and this friend being friends is destroying a previous friendship but its sounds fair to me. this stuff happens and it will resolve itself in the end, if it was not meant to be for them to be friends or u and ur ex to be together, then it wasn't, simple as that. you live and learn, nothing about love is fair.
2006-11-08 20:07:54 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not fair. Tell your ex to get over it.
2006-11-08 20:07:44 · answer #3 · answered by Kay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not fair because your unintelligible question is not giving intelligent people a chance to make answers.
2006-11-08 20:06:58 · answer #4 · answered by Scarlett_156 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh?
Do not write as you speak. You make no sense.
2006-11-08 20:07:54 · answer #5 · answered by lilly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋