I 25 and at the point where I just don't care. I'm emotionally unavailable but, I want to be with a man. I don't really need a relationship but, I'm not going to just sleep around with just any guy. Recently, I met this guy "Nick" online. We flirted around a lot. We decided to hang out one time so, we did. He metioned that he was very busy for the next couple weeks(college). Anyways, we hung out At his place. One thing led to another and we ended up having sex. The next day, I tried to talk to him online and he said nothing. I figured he was busy but, when I tried again and he didn't say anything. I assumed he was a HUGE jerk! I called him earlier and he answered my call and talked for quite awhile explaining how he's busy and how it sucks. Then he said to call him if I'm in town this weekend but, no gaurentees he'd be able to do something. I just don't know what to think, now. I'm so confused. Does he want friends with benefits(I'm OK with that) or is he avoiding me & being a jerk?
2006-11-08 11:54:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I want something with this guy but, like I said without going into details I'm emotionally unavailable so, I am ALL FOR the friends with benefits thing. I want that!!! I'm just not sure if he is being a jerk and avoiding me all together or if he wants to continue this rendezvous. I tried to talk to him online and got no response but, I called him and he did say he's busy(school work- sounded disapointed that he had to do it) but, to call him this weekend but, no guarentees that he can do anything.
What do you all think???
2006-11-08 12:12:36 · update #1
Your guy is like my guy, they seem to be pretty busy when you need them emotionnally but when they want to get some theyre quick to answer you. I couldnt answer you, but i think theres a slight chance he might want to be more friends with benefits with you then more.... he could be avoiding you or he could be VERY busy, its hard to tell... i cant even tell for mine! You should talk to him about it i guess. good luck :)
2006-11-08 11:58:14 · answer #1 · answered by KiMMY_XoX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'de For It once I Did the full F*ck buddy element i found It extremely relaxing, The Sneaking approximately provides A Excitment on your existence, the probability is you will finally end up Gettin returned at the same time, whether you Dont you have The Satifaction Of understanding His female Aint Doing To Him What you're able to do in any different case He Wouldnt Be Crawling returned To You. So Atleast you have One Over On Him. good success :)
2016-12-28 16:32:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
FORGET ABOUT HIM - he's using you as back up in case he can't get anyone else lined up on the weekend.
Sorry:(
2006-11-08 11:58:36 · answer #3 · answered by S M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump that zero
2006-11-08 11:56:07 · answer #4 · answered by The Chief 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋