i wouldnt get off the computer so my brother tried to turn it off. So I hit him.. he threw me on the ground and hit me back. Why? and my mom came up and now im grounded for a weeek!!RAWR heh
2006-11-08 11:53:21 · 13 answers · asked by alan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
In the first place your brother should not hit you because boys should not hit girls. Your brother should have been the one grounded for this, not you.
You should probably use this solution if you want to do something to him for doing this to you:
The next time you have other girls over at your house and your brother is on the computer, you should have two girls take him out of the chair and throw him on the ground. Once he is on the ground, you should have one girl take his hands and another girl take his ankles and carry him to his room and put him on his bed or you can have the two girls carry him to your room and put him on your bed or on a chair. Once his on the bed or in the chair, all the girls should give him a makeover. When you give him a makeover, you should make him wear girls clothes and then all the girls put makeup on him. After you give him a makeover, all the girls should take a picture of him dressed like a girl. While the girls are giving him this makeover, you should hold him down so he does not get away. Also while all the girls are doing this, all the girls that are helping you give him this makeover should tell him that he stinks at being a brother.
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2006-11-09 08:39:51 · answer #1 · answered by M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That sounds just like me and my brother a few years back. I'm 24 now, hes 20...
Being 4 years apart made it a little unbearable at times. My mom always seemed to take his side.
My brother once took the cable that went from the monitor to the cpu, so I couldn't use it, so I retaliated by taking the cable box wire...man, was my mom p*ssed!!!
Try not getting physical though. I know it's hard not too, but it'll only cause more problems down the road. Maybe next time he needs the computer ask if you can have x amount of minutes more and then he can use it. Unless it's a real emergency, I don't see why that can't be accomodated (unless you say 3, 4 hours). Maybe suggest to your mom putting limits on computer time...1 hour and switching, etc...I know it sounds dumb, but really, sometimes you've got to compromise...
2006-11-08 19:58:57 · answer #2 · answered by deuciecabbage 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahh this brings back so many memories. LOL. Sweetie, it happens, it's part of life. I come from a big family and my brother used to be SO mean to me, too. Tell you what will really make him confused - Next time he's being mean to you, instead of buying into it and yelling back at him or hitting him, give in and BE NICE to him. Say 'OK, here you go, you can have the computer.' Smile at him, and be so sweet - He'll be like HUH?! You just watch and see.
2006-11-08 20:24:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your grounded because u hit him first...You need to get smarter and learn how to play the sibling game and win.I know... my brother was 5 yrs younger then me. We have grown up now but that is good cause now I can tell u how to play.First thing is when your brother does something unfair u need to calmy tell your parents that u are trying to do something and he is trying very hard to not let u do it....The thing is to not let your anger get the best of u and to calmy ask your parents to take care of your brother.It works it just took along time for me to realize it.Good luck
2006-11-08 20:36:08 · answer #4 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are the older one then it is because he is the baby. That is always the way things happened in my house, my baby brother was the one who was always in the right. It will get better once you are older and not living in the same house together.
2006-11-08 19:56:51 · answer #5 · answered by cmsmith114 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg well,
is ur brother usually violent?
if he is and hes 12 or over he should go 2 sunrise academy...my sister did cuz she had drug problems (u can go there for any problems) and now shes all better!
just go 2 sunriseacademy.org
it will fix you and ur parents(if they dont know tell them he bothers u)problems!
2006-11-08 19:58:46 · answer #6 · answered by Lucy P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old is he? you need to give more details than saying that you hit him and he hit you back and now you're grounded.
2006-11-08 19:56:40 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Brittany♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HOw odl is ur borther,in't your brother suppose to be grounded too?I don't know but all brothers are so evil
2006-11-08 20:16:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
why not walk up to him smiling of course and knee him in the groin for getting you into trouble... tell him if he says anything you will do it everyday for the next month. he will keep quite
2006-11-08 20:19:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
me and my brother get in a slap fight all the time! The most inportant thing is that you SITT ON HIS HEAD WITH YOUR butt.
2006-11-08 20:11:12 · answer #10 · answered by KUkuCHoooo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋