My bf and I are long-distance.We've been having problems lately. 3 months ago he broke up with me. He's afraid of confrontation, he wouldn't even talk to me. So i flew up there, we went back together. About 10 days after I came back, we broke up again b/c he ingores my calls sometimes and i got annoyed(although sometimes i called too much). 2 weeks after that i went up there again, he didnt even show up at the airport to pick me up. Our mutual friend Mike picked me up and i stayed at his apt. I didnt do anything to try to get him back b/c i was too heartbroken by what he did. But the 2nd night he came over to mike's place and asked to start over with me. Now it's 3 weeks after that and we broke up again.Same reason.He sometimes ignores my calls(i called a lot less though) and i got annoyed. And now i'm miserable b/c i really wanna work it out with him.So what should I do? fly up there again?b/c it worked everytime and b/c he wouldn't even talk to me. That's the only way to get him talk
2006-11-08 11:52:42 · 5 answers · asked by little asian gal in cresent city 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Focusing on getting him back will not only
lessen the chances, but it will keep you from
moving on in your life.
The best thing for you to do is MOVE ON in your
life.
Ironically, the way to give yourself the best
chances of getting him back is to NOT TRY...
instead, go date other men, and be scarce in his
life.
In other words, you're never going to make him
feel any ATTRACTION for you again by staying in
touch, being his friend, and being "nice"... and
by trying to "win him over" again.
It would be nice if things worked that way, but
they don't.
2006-11-08 11:57:40 · answer #1 · answered by Scott L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe your perfect for each other but sometimes a little space can make u see how much u care about someone. i think the problem here is distence u know what they say about that. if you can be closer together and still give each other space ones in a while you can have a long term relationship.
2006-11-08 20:01:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could try sending him a limo and meet him in a nice restaurant
2006-11-08 19:58:18 · answer #3 · answered by seilygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him exactly how you feel and stay there tell you gone over every thing ...maybe even move out there
2006-11-08 20:03:18 · answer #4 · answered by allidoisluve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him and ask him to forgive you, then don't get mad when he ignores your calls, people get busy you know
2006-11-08 19:55:36 · answer #5 · answered by My dad ate my homework 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋