I fell in love with his wit and kindness and we have a lot of common interests and beliefs. We laugh a lot together and we co-raise 2 loveable cats. We've been together for 3years and are basically best friends. But will he ever grow up? Should I expect him to mature? Should I move on...and if so how do I go...we live together? I ask because he doesn't have his driver's liscense (he's 25 and never got it)...he works retail making a crappy wage with no plan for future (tried school dropped out and has loans)...he has dreams of being a money making musician but no back up plan and no band for years...our sex life sucks (about once or twice a month)...I usually end up doing all of the chores around the house unless I ask him. He is frustrated because I keep harping him and telling him I'm unhappy and we need to do something to fix us. He never has anything negative to say about me but is very passive aggresive and uses guilt a lot. I feel bad always complaining. HELP!!!
2006-11-08 11:52:30 · 2 answers · asked by G 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow, 25 years old and no license? Anyway. If he has no future, then I don't think there will be a future for the both of you. You guys should sit one on one and really talk about it. Where the relationship is going and if he wants to become a musican, he needs a plan for that too. Everything needs a plan.
2006-11-08 11:57:31 · answer #1 · answered by Kathlin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no saving it
2006-11-08 19:55:10 · answer #2 · answered by The Chief 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋