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I have a loved one that has tried to end her addiction but always ends up back on herion. She gets clean and stays that way for around 3-4 months and then goes back to using. She will not change her enviroment or friends that seem to bring her down. She does not shoot up but smokes it.

2006-11-08 11:49:05 · 14 answers · asked by Michael M 2 in Health Mental Health

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o.K. first my friend you can not help someone if they really don,t want to change,Someone cannot get clean and stay clean if they don,t do it for their self!If she,s getting clean for parents,Children,husband,Boyfriend,Friends,Family,ect.Its not gona work,She has to do it for herself,And the first step is change all your old friends,{they were never real friends anyways,Just someone to get high and skrew up your life with,Misery loves company and apparently it sounds like deep down inside she is not ready because she will not change old behaver[friends,the places she goes and the poeple she wishes to hang with!The only way she,s gona get clean is hit bottom and I,m Sorry to say my dear she has not yet!You need to give her Tuff love!Its called do not bail her out anymore,You have to drop her comp[letly out of your life to she wants to help herself,it sounds like everybody forgives her all the time so she knows she can get away with it,I know its a hard thing to do,But everybody that loves her needs to get together and have a meeting{Surprise meeting as far as she is concerned!}And everybody needs to say this is it!Detox for last time stay clean or we are all washing our hands of you!I Know it sounds cruel but its the only way!Good Luck,HollywoodP.S.God Bless

2006-11-08 12:05:17 · answer #1 · answered by hollywood 5 · 1 0

all of us ought to make our very own alternatives in existence. And the only individual who we are able to alter is our self. If he's no longer waiting to alter, then he won't. do no longer deliver your very own existence down via attempting to help or replace him. permit him understand which you adore him and are there for him purely while he's prepared to alter. My sister is a heroine addict. I watched her bypass from being a millionairess to residing in a shed in the back of someones abode. i've got presented quite a few cases to hire an condominium for her for six months, to ensure that her to get returned on her feet and that i've got additionally presented to pay for rehab (which she's been to distinctive cases), yet she prefers to stay on the streets, being a prostitute and capturing. I fairly much lost each and every thing that I ever had (and ever could have) quite a few cases, purely attempting to help her. Please take my advice and prepare some difficult love. do no longer learn the problematic way like I had to. he will come abode, like the Prodigal Son, while he's waiting.

2016-10-03 10:37:45 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

i have a friend in a very similar circumstance but she shoots up. i hope some one here has an idea. her problem is that she is not religious and there seem to be no programs that are not god based, this has been a problem.

good luck

2006-11-08 12:03:52 · answer #3 · answered by karl k 6 · 0 0

Sadly, not until something life changing happens. Something that finally means more than the self indulgence. God Bless and be the strength and victory for this person.

2006-11-08 11:55:13 · answer #4 · answered by Faerie loue 5 · 0 1

She HAS to change her enviroment cause peer pressure is a mofo.

2006-11-08 11:51:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

she needs 6 mo- 1yr in a half way house

2006-11-08 11:51:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Rehab... there is this good place in kansas called vally hope. and also clay crossing in Oaklahoma... they are both awesome

2006-11-08 11:57:53 · answer #7 · answered by the world will never know 2 · 0 0

She has to want it for herself... I personally recommend the 1-step plan: prayer.

2006-11-08 11:51:01 · answer #8 · answered by KnowhereMan 6 · 1 1

Strap her down to the bed.

2006-11-08 11:50:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

She needs to go to rehab, and then she needs to MOVE far away from her loser friends.

2006-11-08 11:50:44 · answer #10 · answered by bibliophile31 6 · 2 0

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