i dont want to ask out but he always looks at me and blushes when i talk to him
2006-11-08 11:47:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He likes you, but he's intimidated by you. He asks girls out that are less of a threat to him (meaning what would it matter if they shot him down) but he's afraid to ask you out because if you turned him down he would be hurt.
If you want him to ask you out, you are going to have to send him subtle signals that it would be safe to do so.
2006-11-08 11:53:07 · answer #1 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He likes you, that is for sure. He may be very shy and just need a little push (flirt a bit or send a friend to hint him you are interested). He may also be very shy and need a huge push (you ask him out).
Why do you think he would not like a girl to ask him out? I am sure 90% of guys would be impressed a girl did that.
2006-11-08 11:53:22 · answer #2 · answered by Historygeek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why on earth don't you ask him out? If you have some reason not to ask him out, then the only option left is to flutter your eyelashes and look pretty and waste your life away waiting and hoping that the boy you like will come to you.
2006-11-08 11:52:41 · answer #3 · answered by evil little girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably does, just afraid to ask you. Start hanging out with him more, and sitting next to him during lunch and talk to him more often. Then bring it up indirectly, like asking him if he likes anyone. You could also ask him something like "Do you like me as much as I like you?". Just make sure you sound sincere. Hope everything works out!
2006-11-08 11:55:46 · answer #4 · answered by Zach S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not sure about a guys feelings, be bold and ask him yourself. ^_^ Guys can be so cute when they dont know what to say...
I know you think it's dumb to ask out a guy, but if you like him, you should go for it cuz sometimes boys dont know how to approach girls...so help him out.
Ask him to go on a "pre-date" or something with you and see what happens. ^_^
Good luck mija!
2006-11-08 11:54:26 · answer #5 · answered by La Reina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, with me, I told my friend I liked him, and kept it a secret. My friend told our friend Drew, and told his friend Matt(who is my crush, and also my friend) and I had a Halloween Party with all my friends. He said he was tired of everyone saying I like him, and he knew I did like him, and he was tired of me always saying no whenever he asked me if I liked him or not. Just today, he said he knew I liked him, and that he liked me back.
I'd say wait, and somehow get him to know you like him, without telling him directly...and wait for the best! I'm sure the best will come!
2006-11-08 12:21:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to just do it beacuse both of u feel the pasionand if he hasn't made a move yet then u should u don't have to wait if u really want him just go for it!
2006-11-08 11:50:33 · answer #7 · answered by brownsugacookie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to him some more and get to know him better and im sure he will ask you out. hint to him about some good movies on right now. read tips on flirting and more to help you on this site
2006-11-08 11:53:56 · answer #8 · answered by doll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should get close to him by getting close to hisfriends and he will notice u but when you invite him out to hang out he wouldnt think your asking him out becouse you par t of his crew. this is also a great way to get to know his charter and u can determine if his good for u.
2006-11-08 11:52:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him if he lieks you and its usually a guys first reaction after saying yes or no to ask you out *only when he says yes though*
2006-11-08 11:49:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋