If you lose the "love of your life" tragically at age 21, can you still find true love again?

Question

Would you eventually want to find someone else to love/ have a family with or would you want to live your life as a memorial? At age 21?

Answer 1

first of all, I am so sorry for your loss, and the pain that it causes.
I can imagine you feel like you could never love someone else again, but in time I truly believe that you can. my dad is a perfect example of this very situation, except for the age. my parents were married for close to 40 years when my mom was diagnosed with cancer. she lived only a little over a year from the time of her diagnosis, and no one was expecting her to leave this world when she did. I was crushed, but had to be strong for my dad. he said he didn't think he could ever date or even be interested in another woman. just the thought of it made him feel guilty. but I could see as the months passed by, how lonely he was for a companion, and a little over a year from the time my mom passed, dad met a wonderful woman who had lost her husband and was feeling just like dad was. he invited her to go to Church with us, and she said yes. that was the beginning of the biggest romance I've seen in years. and I am so happy for both of them, and I know my mom is too. she wouldn't have wanted dad to be alone. and the love of your life wouldn't want you to be alone either. I promise you, you can and will find true love again when the time is right and you are ready. you have your whole future ahead of you. you will never, ever forget the one you lost, this person will live on in your heart, and in your memories for the rest of your life. and should. but you can't live in the past, you will only grieve yourself to death. you will find someone so special to you when the time is right, and you will be happy, and you will love again.
I will keep you in my prayers, and wish you the very best.

Answer 2

Tragedies are hard to overcome.There will always be the memory which will fade in time. You have to go on with you life no matter how much you will be hurting now. Life is not easy for any one us. Be brave and turn the chapter in you life even if it is slow to come.

Answer 3

Are you serious... this question may be worth considering when you are 61, not when you are 21. Of course you will find true love again, most people find it in ther 20's and 30's!!!!

Answer 4

i think of you are able to relax so deeply and settle for issues to such an volume which you're feeling love in each and every thing. you will nevertheless react to oppose issues which look out of team spirit with the situations, yet there is what i think is 'unconditional love' for existence itself which works previous all situations and varieties. i think of letting bypass of the concepts which make us stressful and consciously relaxing into each and every 2nd can take you to a love it particularly is unconquerable. on a similar time as i think of this gives you with great 'capability' interior the international, this love conquers the phobia interior, fairly than hindrances exterior, which ought to nevertheless persist.

Answer 5

My old english teacher got married (the first time) at age 70-sumthing. That should give you all the hope in the world.

Answer 6

Yes. Later on when you have healed and are ready to love again start your life over.

Answer 7

I believe it would take some time and serious security with ones self to full go back in to the "dating world" but i do believe it is possible.

Answer 8

Yes of course!!even though it seems impossible dont worry hes out there and maybe it could even be the guy ur talkin bout

Answer 9

Yes, Life goes on.