I am completely infatuated with a gal at work. We were talking today and mentioned that she has broken up with her boyfriend two weeks ago and was also saying how she doesnt really go out much. I havent asked her out cause I cant read her at all. Advice please.
2006-11-08 11:38:59 · 12 answers · asked by teenypurplebinky 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well sweetie,,if you want to know if there is a possibility of being her guy, then just ask her out..if she refuses then you know she isnt interested, if she doesnt then you knw there might be a possibility,,just dont et your hopes up,,she just recently broke up with her man so she might not be interested in gettig into a relatiohship really fast..but she might..anyway..just ask her out dude..
2006-11-08 11:42:15 · answer #1 · answered by sinful vampyra 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you don't "know" try a few of these...you will find out quick enough ...good luck!
1) Don't smile very often.
2) Pretend that you've known her for 20 years, and
that you're TOO comfortable around her. Tease her for
something that no one teases her about... like the
way she dresses, etc.
3) Pretend that she's interested in YOU, and has been
pursuing YOU, and that you're resisting her. Make jokes
about it and say things like "I just don't think things
are going to work out between us".
4) Give her NO compliments of any kind. If she gives
you any, say "That's a cheesy pick up line. Can't you
think of something more original?"
2006-11-08 19:46:42 · answer #2 · answered by Scott L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does the girl at work bring up dating a lot to you?? If so then she is probably sending you the sign that she would like to go out, I am sure she will not mention it to you, but go for it.... Ask her something like.... After work do you want to go get a bite to eat somewhere. That does not necessarily mean you have to go on a date but it will give you more time to figure out how she is feeling about! Good Luck!
2006-11-08 19:44:27 · answer #3 · answered by Holly F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot depends on her tone of voice, when she said she doesn't go out much. Maybe she would like to go out more, if she had the opportunity, or maybe she doesn't go out much because she likes it that way.
In any event, she has told you she's available. That sounds to me like an invitation. Think about it. Why tell you she's broken up with her boyfriend, if she isn't interested in you?
2006-11-08 19:43:10 · answer #4 · answered by Allen Montgomery 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think somebody has a crush on you!! you lucky dog. ask her for dinner or a drink after work, or maybe even a walk in the park while there are still a few leaves on the trees, but be smooth about it. dont try anything tricky. let her make the first move.
2006-11-08 19:43:01 · answer #5 · answered by indy_chick_08 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont try to read her... just simply ask her out. She can say yes or no, either way you have your answer.. no guess work. However, I must warn you. Sometimes work and relationships dont mix too well. Good luck.
2006-11-08 19:43:39 · answer #6 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say that was a definite sign telling you to ask her out.
2006-11-08 19:40:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like she is telling you to ask her out in a non-chalant way. I would totally go for it!
2006-11-08 19:40:26 · answer #8 · answered by natmys333 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
take her to lunch. No pressure and you can get a better idea about the situation.
2006-11-08 19:41:31 · answer #9 · answered by Jennifer L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her on a friendly date
2006-11-08 19:40:22 · answer #10 · answered by My dad ate my homework 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋