my husband and I have been having issues with his cheating-I am so feed up but yet I'm still with him-now he has his mom and his other son from another female living with us. I really don't want them their since we have issues already-can I get some replys of what others may think.
2006-11-08 11:33:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I can see that you are really trying to do what you believe to be the right thing for everyone else, but you seem to be forgetting that you must do what is best for you-first and foremost. I have been in a similar situation myself, and let me be the first to warn you, the resentment you think you dont have inside, is building and unless you release it before it is too late, you can expect either the arguement from hell or you may well have a breakdown. Especially as you are already having issues with your husband, it is not fair to be unable to deal with them plus have extra stress on top of things. You need to talk to your husband and explain that this situation is not working for you and arrange something else. Your marriage is your first priority and you owe it to yourself to fix the problems within it, not let others add more. Good luck.
2006-11-08 11:52:58 · answer #1 · answered by Violet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have an already bad situation at home. Mix in a couple of extended family members, & you have an even worse situation.
If you two are determined to try to work out your problems, then the unnecessary personell in the home should be brought to an understanding that they are only making matters worse by being there. If they truly love you both & care about what happens, then they should understand & leave.
Furthermore, I can only see one way to deal with the situation of a spouse cheating. Either the cheating stops, or the relationship ends, period.
2006-11-08 12:23:28 · answer #2 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is hard enough without a third party.He shouldn't of let his mom move in. If possible he should find her another place to live if he wants his marriage to survive.For what I know he has cheated and the mother thing so I think he is not worth it...You deserve someone that cares for u the same way u care for him.For what I see he doesn't.Good luck hon
2006-11-08 11:52:49 · answer #3 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like to think of that way of existence is a huge area of ailment, flame me in case you like, yet i think of this is genuine. i might see a genetic counselor until eventually now making a call, because of the fact a number of those might relatively must be exceeded on my the mothers DNA no longer the fathers. Genetic counselors will evaluate you disadvantages which contain age and wellness and so forth and so forth and provide you a concept of the hazards in touch. of direction, those are basically the possibilities and nevertheless would possibly no longer take place to any of your off spring. desire you come across a answer that works for each individual. additionally, attempt putting your self in his footwear. What in case you had a relatives historic past (do no longer all of us!) and he expected you to have yet another female's egg implanted into your uterus, or maybe come across a surrogate. basically something to think of roughly.
2016-10-15 13:23:22 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is cheating why are you still with him? It's obvious that he is looking elsewhere. Why are you staying? You are worth far more than that. I would leave if I was you. Now he is not only cheating, he is surrounding you with these other people. He isn't thinking of you at all.
2006-11-08 12:58:55 · answer #5 · answered by lazycat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eww that's a bad situation. talk to your husband and ask if his mother and son can live somewhere's else until ya'll get these issues cleared up. if he doesn't listen try getting yourself out of that house, then maybe you will get his attention.
2006-11-08 11:38:51 · answer #6 · answered by S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your having issues about his cheating?? please! this would not be an issue at all, it would be over. and the reason he moved them in is because he don't care what you think or how you feel. he proves that with the cheating. need i say more!
2006-11-08 12:43:07 · answer #7 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you are not being selfish, it is the other way around, maybe his child needs to be there, but why his mom, you two need to focus on each other
2006-11-08 12:12:55 · answer #8 · answered by walmartshopper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. you're the best wife ever. you're a fool, but wow. you are an episode of jerry springer waiting to happen. when you go to the filming, wear something that can be torn off your body easily.
2006-11-08 11:35:25 · answer #9 · answered by no_wait_hes_spartacus 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its your home but you should wait tell after the holidays to make him put them out
2006-11-08 12:55:32 · answer #10 · answered by allison b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋