Is it a bad idea to date a man who's divorced with a kid? He's been divorced a year. His daughters 5.?

Answer 1

If you are only casually dating him keep his daughter pretty much out of it. Explain to him that you don't want to cause any undue confusion for his child, so until and unless the two of you really decide to be together, you would prefer not to interact with her on a regular basis. One year is a little tough because the child has not had time to truly acclimate to having one parent let alone the threat of someone taking mommy's place. But if he is genuinely a nice guy and your intentions are honest and good go for it.

Answer 2

A coupla issues : a divorced guy is a unfastened guy! If he have been given toddlers he's have been given a prior. If he's on my own then he's on my own - there ain't no one gonna substitute that until eventually he does or is going for it. Seeing his place and difficulty - he probly does n't comprehend which you have the hots for him - why no longer tell him - or furnish a nighttime out - or a simpel diner for chats - bear in mind friendships are the best place to initiate something with each physique. He has emotions - you have emotions - its the mutual factor this is unknown - so make your self heard in some way or yet another. perchance he's wating, perchance he aint - be open yet friendly specifically be truthful. stable success!

Answer 3

Raye..you don't mention how old you are and hold the the man is?
I personally don't believe there's anything wrong with dating a man who had a child - as you get older, you are going to find more and more single parents out there.

One thing to remember when dating a single parent, is to treat the children with the utmost respect and expect the same in return.

If the children are spoiled, undisciplined kids, then it's time to run ! If the father insists they say please, thank you, send out thank you cards for gifts, for example, and speaks to them respectfully (rather than swears or talks down to them) then the kids are on the right track and so is he !

Soo.. in short.. Go for it ! All the best -

Answer 4

It can possible be. Trust me divorce dads always use their kids as an excuse for not doing things with you when they barely spend time with their kids. They lie to you and say they are spending time with their kids when they are actually doing other things. They also always complain about how broke they are because they have to pay alimony and child support so therefore don't have any money to spend on you. They are always complaining about the drama they go through with the child's mother when they are actually the problem.
Also trust me on this. Be very leery of guys who brag about how great of a Dad they are. THEY ARE LYING TO YOU!!!!

Answer 5

It is ok to date someone who is divorced with children. However you shouldn't be around the children until you both decide it is the right time to do so. Children can get attached very quickly.

Answer 6

It depends how long he has been divorced. If it has been not that long then i say no better be friend and see what the future would bring you. But if it wasnt that long then go for it.

Answer 7

It's OK to date him but for a few months you shouldn't meet the daughter.

The daughter shouldn't met you so that she won't get attached in case things don't work out.

Answer 8

Since you've been married AGAIN & believe me its not for the last time,once u do it, its rare that you stop.Why not date de guy after all it seems like you do need excitement in your life since it revolves around sowing and re-creating.You might gain a lot from his kid.IF U ARE INTERESTED WHY NOT!!

Answer 9

Not if you are not ready for the commitment.. think about the future, if this dating goes anywhere, do you think you could get close to his daughter, or do you think you are ready enough to have the responsibility. It's all up to you, it depends on the person!!

Answer 10

no