he tells me that he still has feelings for me and everything but yet he trys to get with other girls. He knows how i feel, and he told me that he just wants to be just friends with me but yet he still has feelings for me. Was he lying to me about still having feelings? Why is he actin this way?
2006-11-08 11:26:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Unfortunately, because he can (and you let him). If you make it clear your feelings and that if he can't respect you (if he's checking out other girls in front of you or blatantly telling you of his escapades), you need to move on.
I think a lot of guys are confused. They like/love one girl until the opportunity comes up where they think they can get a better one. I guess I'm a little jaded. Plus, I'm in a very similar situation.
If all he can offer is friendship, you either have to accept the relationship as that or move on. It really sucks when the 'friends' line gets blurred beyond recognition and then you end up where I'm at...A girl in love with a guy who says he loves her (but loves his girlfriend too), will sleep (the true definition of sleep) with me...occasion scr*w me, and expect to have the relationship titled "just friends"...more like a f*ck buddy...Then being told "if I was forced into marriage today, I'd marry you," or "you're my partner for life."
Be careful girl, I started off where you're at. It's only going to get worse if you don't take a stance now and set up boundaries.
Put yourself first, you need someone who wants you, not some other girl...
2006-11-08 11:34:50 · answer #1 · answered by deuciecabbage 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chick take my advice and find some1 else as you start hanging around more guys then the more you start liking them if he still has feelings for you and says he wants to stay friend well then stay friends and if you want to really get him back then make him jealous with other guys. Good Luck!!!
2006-11-08 11:31:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it like this but he is probably just trying to get some. He may very well have feelings for you but they are not strong enough to give you what you want in a relationship.
2006-11-08 11:29:13 · answer #3 · answered by micg 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1.) He could really still have feelings for you and want to be with you, so hes trying to make you jeolous, or hes just scared to loose you
2.) He was lying to see if he could get in your pants
Talk to him try adn see how he really feels tell him how you feel. See what he says .
2006-11-08 11:29:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart actions speak louder then words..First of all he is getting with other girls so that should be a clue...The big clue was him telling u he only wants to be friends...You deserve better so get a clue.
2006-11-08 11:30:02 · answer #5 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is he is lying to you about still having feelings for you. Don't sale yourself short. You can do better than that.
2006-11-08 11:30:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well feelings are feelings. that is something that you just dont losse in a day.. You know its like when people get divorce there are feeling there.. Kinda like who you women well say that I love you, but not in love with you... Whats that???? Let him see other people and go ahead and let him have sex with you every now and then..
2006-11-08 11:32:18 · answer #7 · answered by Steve G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cuz he's a complete jerk..guys r hopeless..if he still had feeling for u he wouldn't go around hitting on other girls...if he still had feeling for u he would care of ur feelings...either that or he's simply tryin to make u jealous..see both ways guys r hopeless
2006-11-08 11:31:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe what he may be trying to tell you is that if you are open to fooling around with no commitment, then he is too. He thinks you are cool and is attracted to you but doesn't want to be your boyfriend. Pretty simple to me.
2006-11-08 11:30:50 · answer #9 · answered by stymie1970 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes just playing mind games with you,,just in case he ever wants you back he knows by telling you these things that he can have you back anytime he wants.
2006-11-08 11:28:48 · answer #10 · answered by michelle 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋