ok i like this guy that's in my grade and i mean i really like him and he's the only guy that i like... so i asked him out and well he told me that he has a girlfriend, but his girlfriend is such a snob! anyway, i still really like this guy, but more than friends and i need to know... what should i do?
2006-11-08 11:17:48 · 12 answers · asked by kitkat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HONEY DO NOT GO THERE-PUT YOURSELF IN HER SHOES-WHAT IF SHE WANTED YOUR MAN? WHAT WOULD YOU DO?
2006-11-08 11:23:41 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um - lets see . . . first, ask yourself how you would feel if some girl was trying to figure out how to "steal" your boyfriend?!? What goes around - comes around. If you "steal" this guy - why someone just might "steal" him from you!!! Boy just think of all the important things you could have accomplished with that energy you just wasted on "stealing" a guy just to have him "stolen" from you!! Besides, it could just be that while you are so focused on a guy that is already taken - you missed out on a really cool dude who wanted to be your boyfriend but gave up because you were too busy to notice him. Trust me - you have alot of years ahead and boys will come and go - - - don't waste your precious time trying to "steal" someone - - just enjoy every relationship as it is and who knows? maybe down the road this guy just might decide he does like you as a girlfriend. You never know what the future will bring!!!!
2006-11-08 19:32:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you SHOULD do is back way the hell off. I don't think much of your morals. The girlfriend code says no woman may approach a taken guy in regards to making him her boyfriend or be branded a ho for life. Are you a ho? If not move on and be less picky or else be a ho and have no friends because if you do this no other girl will want to come anywhere near you and frankly who could blame them.
2006-11-08 19:20:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey please don't do this to yourself. I don't know what grade you're in but let me tell you that this is no way to start a relationship. And I can assure you that you don't want someone who would dump his girlfriend to be with another girl. Even if you did "succeed" in taking him away from his girlfriend, trust me that you will always be trying to keep him. That's too much work! Again, I don't know how old you are, but shouldn't you be focused on your school work? Remember that boys come and go, education doesn't.
2006-11-08 23:57:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can really do is offer your friendship to him. But be VERY careful, it won't work and will only cause you pain if you have more feelings for him than he has for you. If you think you can be a friend to him, go for it, you never know what may happen with him and his girlfriend.
2006-11-08 19:20:34 · answer #5 · answered by deuciecabbage 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he told you he already has a girlfriend then he's likely not interested. Move on.
2006-11-08 19:20:49 · answer #6 · answered by love2utam 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
know your place. if he likes he will leave his girl but if he told u he might not beready to get into it with another girl. stay away from taken property.
2006-11-08 19:20:28 · answer #7 · answered by Oh2Lovely 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um... hmm... thats a toough one do something to notice him ! do a big change it will catch his attention just rember they probablly wont last forever but if u give it time they may soon break up
2006-11-08 19:20:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Whatever you do dont get him to cheat on her with you. If you do that you'll never be able to trust that he wont cheat on you.
2006-11-08 19:19:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you dont mess with a man that is taken.
you the type of ***** that gets the crap beat out of her
2006-11-08 19:21:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋