I really like getting into relationships(NOT FOR BAD THINGS, I LIKE IT BECAUSE ITS FUN) but nobody wants to go out with me. I'm not very popular at my school. Does popularity affect how you could get into a relationship? WHY DOESN'T ANYBODY WANNA GO OUT WITH ME?(sorry i yelled, i am lovesick)
2006-11-08 11:02:39 · 15 answers · asked by jordan1024mb_awesome 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You could go out with someone by being nice to them and build a relationship. Then ask them out.
Sometimes popularity does affect your relationship. Ex: Say a girl likes you, but her friends say your not "cool" enough.
Don't worry, there's more than likey at least one person that wants to go out with you!!
GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-11-08 11:08:20 · answer #1 · answered by Kai-Kai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You, are still young and the age group you are in are not into relationships. Just the Idea of have a boyfriend or girlfriend is what sparks your interest. You need not rush the girl into a relationship. Just ask the girl you like out but make it cascual. After you guys have had a few cascual meetings, it might turn into something more. You guys are not at the age where you are looking for a soulmate. It will come soon, but take it slow with the girl. After you will have to see how the girl feels about you. Saying right in the beginning that you want a relationship can scare a 13year old girl. The girl might not even know really well so she would be surprised and unsure how to take that. Popularity doesn't matter. Because it depends on whether or not the girl likes you at least as a friend. If she likes you as a friend you have already gained her approval to talk to her and the respect. And yes, it is ok to start out in the friend zone.
2006-11-08 11:55:36 · answer #2 · answered by someone ha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes no need 2 yell, in general I hear just fine but u almost deafened me here, & I'm almost possitive ur not here in the Caribbean. Dont rush it, I'm sure the girls will b flocking u soon. Get 2 know them, let them get 2 know u. Its not really about popularity, its ur personality that counts. Dont simply try 2 jump from one relationship 2 the other it could also be that amongst ur peers that reputation has preceeded u. Enjoy ur youth and try 2 make as many friends as possible, eventually the gils will see how wonderful u r. Complement the girls, they like that, say how nice their hair looks 2day or their outfit or how beautiful their smile is, things like that, & most importantly, dont show desparation. Good Luck.
2006-11-08 11:25:47 · answer #3 · answered by Mimi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most 7th graders are very immature and dive into relationships for all the wrong reasons. But that doesn't mean you can't get one! Tell a good joke and be the mature one who doesn't laught at vulgar, tasteless jokes. Be friendly even if you're shy about it. Work on your appearance (again, it's not that there's anything wrong with you; it's just that most girls that age care more about looks). NEVER appear desperate. Popularity does affect how you get into a relationship, but that's assuming you're interested in the popular girls. A nice, good girl is what you're looking for, regardless of how popular or unpopular she is.
2006-11-08 11:08:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look in the 6th grade. girls like older boys since girls mature at a much earlier age. Since you are only 13 years old you have plenty of time to develop relationships with girls but the rule still applies even in high school girls like older boys.
2006-11-08 11:08:06 · answer #5 · answered by Chuck C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You like getting into relationships because they're FUN? So you're looking for a short fling?!! You're only in SEVENTH grade. You have better things to worry about!
2006-11-08 11:08:13 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude i know a lot of people are gonna say "you dont need a gf right now, your too young" but im in 8th grade and i say screw them! get to be really good friends with a girl you think is interested in you. if she backs away then dont force yourself onto her. popularity does kinda affect it only in the aspect that social groups go out with social groups. ask your best GUY friend what social status you are. then go out with a girl in that social status. good luck kid!
2006-11-08 11:07:34 · answer #7 · answered by shheeyya mann 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
U can either b a pimp and find a bunch of grls to hang around or u cud look for a grl who shares the same interests as u and get to kno her.
p.s. I sorta like the second one better=)
2006-11-08 11:07:06 · answer #8 · answered by diamond 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok. NO to the candies. Thats SOO cliche!(sorry bud.) um hug may be awkward searching on your modern-day courting. and he or she likely wouldnt favor you to stroll her to her automobile bcuz her mum and dad might want to make sure you adult adult males. so the following is what you do: AFTER tennis sometime, get in to a convo and purely be like we could continually flow to the flicks sometime. desire each and every thing works out!
2016-11-28 22:39:54 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in eighth grade and honeswtly no one really takes adting seriously.Wait till high school
2006-11-08 11:14:32 · answer #10 · answered by michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋