I have been going out with this boy for a good 5 months now. I tell him I love him and he says the same but i need to know if I really am in love with him. I need to know this because he asked me if I loved him or if I was in love with him. I told him I would tell him later. How can I tell if I'm in love with him?
2006-11-08 11:01:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you wake up and he is the first thing on your mind and if he is the last thing you think about before you go to sleep. If everytime you see him you get happy and your heart starts to beat faster. if you love him all this shouold be true but most of all you should be willing to do anything for him and you should always be a little happier when he is near you
2006-11-08 11:05:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nine times out of ten you are just infatuated with him at the moment. Ask yourself these question... Can you live without him? Will you do anything for him within reach? Do you find yourself thinking about other guys? Think beyond the sex if you will because sometimes that tends to have you thinking you are in love, but in reality you are not. You can love your mom, but not be in love with her. U see the difference. When you are in love with someone it's still love, but in a different kind of way.
2006-11-08 11:08:49 · answer #2 · answered by Let's keep it real. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go with KA's answer. If you have to ask or think about it that hard, there's nothing there. It's not the end of the world. At least you're with someone you like spending time with, right? And he with you...that's all that matters. If it feels like a chore or a bore, just forget about it and find something else to do with your time until real love hits you between the ears.
2006-11-08 11:08:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to be with him all the time?? Does he share the same beliefs (faith and life) as you do?? Does he respect his parents?? Does he want to spend time with you?? Is he easily annoyed with you?? Does he make up excuses just to avoid being with you?? These should be signs.. (of course the bad things are bad and the good things are good)... but, unfortunately, sometimes girls are in love and their lovers aren't on the same page, make sure he's there with you, or it can only end in tears.. sorry..
I'd also need to know more details of the relationship... OH!! and another thing.. would you wait FOREVER just to be his?? (That's a biggie)
2006-11-08 11:06:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are IN LOVE with him, take it for granted this relationship will not last. If you LOVE him, it will last. These are strictly todays findings (you can read them in several books by several authors). Being in love is equivalent to a crush/ infatuation and true love is healthy for both the souls invloved whether they remain together at the end or not. I think your boy friend is trying to find that out exactly.
2006-11-08 11:12:46 · answer #5 · answered by S&D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, i dont think you are in love. Sorry.
If you were truly in love you would know without a doubt and wouldn't be asking anyone else. No one else can tell what you are feeling inside for another person, only you know that. I think others will agree with me here?
2006-11-08 11:05:18 · answer #6 · answered by I know, I know!!!! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to sort your feelings for him. If he gives you butterflies every time you see him and when you look in his eyes your heart jumps, then you know that you are in love with him. If you have feelings so deep for him that you can't control them then that's your answer. But you have to think long and hard before you give him an answer because you don't want to hurt his feelings.
2006-11-08 11:08:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess only you would know if you're in love or not. Really listen to your heart, as corny as that sounds. It doesn't neccessarily have to mean that you can imagine being with him FOREVER.. as long as it's how you truly, truly feel.
But if he's pressuring you about it.. that's not exactly a good sign. Don't be too rash about it, ok? :)
2006-11-08 11:06:53 · answer #8 · answered by junsho41 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really how you feel. If you love him, you should tell him. If you don't know, give it some thought, think about how he treats you, and try not to hurt his feelings.
2006-11-08 11:04:35 · answer #9 · answered by jordan1024mb_awesome 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him all the fun things that happened and make him know that you love him if you do love him
2006-11-08 11:04:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋